yea, I have 3 close friends! they all don't get along at all! and on top of that, they all drive me crazy!! one is wayyyy to hyper and makes me soo mad and creates drama! another ditches me for popular kids and is way too bossy! my other one is my closest, and she is always whining and complaining and has to get her way! on top of that, she is starting to go anorexic because she is "too fat" when she is only like 5 lbs overweight!
i just don't know what to do!
2007-11-19 07:49:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well you should organise a fun day out and start doing things together and maybe your friendship will grow, or even buy best friend necklaces!
2007-11-19 07:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Amira L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the best thing to do would be to find anew set of friends. There are soooooooo many ppl out there that would be great friends. You know I have friends to that just about drive me crazy. Some girls get to emotional. So you know what I do when they have those days? I just hang out w/ the guys. They are so much cooler to be around and they're not very emotional. Try to find a least one guy best friend for backup. That way you'll never been alone. It works for me. :)
2007-11-19 07:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some new friends that can give you a bit of perspective. No need to ditch the current ones but if you hang out with the same three friends all the time you are bound to get tired of their antics . . . you need a break.
2007-11-19 07:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by gdmagic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I have no friends, Become a hermit its easier, use the computer to comunicate, takes the personal part out, less trouble.
Seriously though, your friends sound wack, break away before ya go batty, even if its just for a week or so.
2007-11-19 07:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by amythys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the ditcher. She wants to be with the 'in-crowd' and isn't interested in being a friend.
Tell the last one to go see a shrink: It's pretty clear that she's one mixed-up gal.
Have a heart-to-heart with the drama queen. Hopefully she'll pay attention.
Good luck.
2007-11-19 07:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, if these ppl drive you crazy, and are going anerexic and all that crap, then why are they your close friends???? They don't sound very fun 2 b around. Maybe you should look for some new people to hang around. better yet, maybe you should find someone that you can tolereate. My friends drive me crazy sometimes, but they are a lot better than yours...
2007-11-19 07:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the one that think she too fat tell her she is not and keep telling her and when she whining tell her stop being a baby . that one the one who ditches you for popular kids just don't talk you her and if this does not work said why do you ditches me for popular kids and when she tell you to do some thing just do not do it . they hyper one tell her to clam down.
2007-11-19 07:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by jd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people treat you this way and you still call them friends? A friend doesn't create drama, ditch you, or boss you. Good luck.
2007-11-19 07:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok wow what you have to do is tell them how you feel and if they get mad then ditch them and get some real friends that actually care about your feelings
2007-11-19 08:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by Brand.New 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to distance yourself from people like that. you can make new friends...you just have to get out there and do it. These people could bring you down....and it sounds like they already do. Go join some clubs or sports, thats a great way to make friends.
2007-11-19 07:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by LO 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Drop them, sure they're close, but the first one is immature, the second is an insecure prick, and the third is a b***h. So just lose them, you're young, find other friends.
2007-11-19 07:53:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋