Should we tell our parents thank you?

Question

Thanksgiving makes me feel thankful for many things, including my parents. My parents died several years ago but I wish I could have thanked them for staying married, even if they did fight like cats and dogs. Mom gave me a love for reading and Dad taught me how to swim.

Would you like to thank your parents for something?

Answer 1

yes. no matter what they've done to us, or for us, their hands were sometimes tough but they were always loving. as a parent, you sacrifice so much just to have kids and to love and nurture them. I'm 16 and it's really hard to appreciate my parents sometimes, especially when I'm caught up in the moment and all I want to do is cuss the hell out of them. Its only when I'm sitting alone in my room that I think and reflect on all that they have done for me. Some things in life are uncertain, like the things that you get to keep and that will always be there. Parents are the exception. They are there for eternity, with a love unbound by infinity

Answer 2

Thinking of children is a choice from the parents. The grandparents made their choices when they were young. And off course most parents wouldlove to have grandchildren, if not for the only reason to spoil them or meke themselves feel young again. It is a decision of the two of you, not your or his parents. Their are some ways out by telling a "white lie" but I don't think that is the best way. Best way is probably telling them that your hubby had the works shut off because of the choice YOU TWO made. You are responsible adults and the choice for children should be a responsible one. If I was in the same situation I would tell them. Next thing they would tell you what kind of car to buy or demand that you buy a pet. Maybe Dr. Phill has a nice way of telling the parents?

Answer 3

My dad has passed, and I couldn't care less. My mom is still alive and I tell her I love her all the time.

I think we all need to watch the movie "For One More Day",
I think its a Hallmark Hall of Fame it's on here in No. Calif.
on 12/9, Check your TV listings for time. It's from the same book by Mitch Albom. We should all tell our kids to watch it also. Maybe they will get some hints, that we may not be here forever and they should pay more attention to us while we are, before it is too late. Of course I realize some parents have passed away, and some of us are not close to our children for one reason or another. Do not mean to imply anything or accuse anybody of anything.

Answer 4

I have always made it a point, from the time I was very young, to let those, not only my parents, who have contributed to my life, know that I appreciate it.

My folks taught me this. It's given me a sense of worth in knowing that because of other people, I have become a better person.

I miss my parents and they are on my mind daily. I think this is part of life when you have had the benefit of kind, loving parents. They're the great teachers, no matter what their educational level.

If I were to thank my parents, today, it would be a repetition, for I did it while they were alive. I didn't want to miss the opportunity. I had great parents and still love them very much.

Answer 5

That's funny - my dad gave me my love of reading and my mom taught me to swim. They are still living, still married (66 years) and amazing individuals. I should call them every day just to say thanks. I'm the only person I know who had such a "classic" childhood. My parents loved us and each other. I have been married to the same man for over 30 years because they were such a good example, and my brothers have been married even longer than I have (they're older).

Answer 6

I'm very lucky since both of my parents are still alive. They love each other so much and that in itself has taught me a lot. I have so many things to thank them for, I just wouldn't know where to begin. The best way I can thank them is by showing them what I have learned by their example.
Today I did thank my mom for taking me to my doctor appointment and walking with me.

Answer 7

I would like to thank my parents for having me, for educating
me, for teaching me right from wrong. For staying married for
over 43 years. For giving me an appreciation of the finer
things in life and to value others. When I became an adult
they became my true friends. I never realized what it meant
to be a parent until I became one. My father passed away
in 1978, my Mom last year. I miss them both. If you are fortunate enough to still have parents, appreciate and love
them. When they are gone, you realize how much.

Answer 8

We should always remember to thank those we love and those who helped to make us who we are.

Something else we should always do is when time comes to part company for a few minutes, a few hours or for a long time we should always tell our loved ones that we love them.

In doing the part of my job that involves death (usually sudden) I'm always amazed how many people tell me that they wish that they had told the person who has died that they loved them.

When my wife and I part it is always with the words "Love you" when we end a telephone conversation it's always with those same words regardless of who is in the room with us.

I urge all I meet in person and on the internet at every opportunity to do the same as I do... You never know...?

Answer 9

My parents have been gone for three decades now. I still thank the Lord everyday for the wonderful parents He blessed me with. I was the fifth of six children, but somehow, both my parents made time for each of us. I believe I am a better husband, father, and grand father because of what I was taught about love and caring for family and friends by my parents. That is biggest thank you any child can give their parents.

Answer 10

I talk to my mom several times a week and I e-mail or call my dad and stepmom. I'd thank them that they get along now and even help one another out at times. I can visit them all and let each of them know I love them, without being afraid I'll hurt the other's feelings.