I used to like this guy & I told him that as well.He replied with a "I would have said yes,but I'm not looking for a relationship right now".That was one year back.
This year,we're much more friendly since we share a class together & we're feeling more comfortable(last year,we were very nervous around each other.more-like strangers).So,we joke around for fun.(he initiates it mostly).Lately,he has been trying to get my attention(teasing me,starts staring for fun & hanging around) & also gives me hidden compliments.
Just today,in the morning,he was commenting abt how my laugh is unique.Later just before school ended,I made a little joke abt him(his hair is pretty long,so i said he looked like a woman) & he asked "why are you trying to get my attention so hard if you take me to be a woman?" & I was left speechless,because for the past few weeks it has been HIM who was trying to get MY attention.
Do you think he said that in front of everyone to cover up what HE feels abt me or
2007-11-19 07:03:17 · 18 answers · asked by warm_glossy_girl 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No, I think he was doing either. I think he was testing the waters. He wanted to see what you're response would be, in that he wants to know if you are indeed interested. What you should have said was something along the lines of, "and what if I was? Would you have a problem with that?" IOW, he wants to know if you are still hoping to get his attention or if he's just making a fool out of himself. but tend to be more interested in something they can't have, they like the thrill of the chase, which is the sense I get from him. Don't be too overly obvious. I really do think he'd like it if you lead him on a little bit, if you know what i mean. Give him a hint, but don't tell him outright.
2007-11-19 07:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the situation that you have depicted I would say that the issue is about the young man being some what immature,first he is cold to you, next he starts to warm -up to you I don't know what the age is of your young man and at what level of school you both are in but, I would re-look at the situation and answer that question "Is this guy know what he wants and what kind of image and confidence does he have in himself?" The Hair issue sends a flag to me that he is not very confident in his own being. Good Luck
2007-11-19 07:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he was trying to cover up that it hurt to hear that, so he turned it more into a joke or made the attention go towards you instead of him.
2007-11-19 07:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was hurt by what you said because he DOES like you, and didn't want to seem "un cool" in front of everyone. Talk to him about it and tell him you were just joking around and apologize to patch things up.
2007-11-19 07:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Perfectly flawed. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this one guy did the same thing to me too!
men like that like to joke but when you joke back they get serious and get really angry
hes really mean and if you think about it he really isnt worth it
2007-11-19 07:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by ikegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't have said that about his hair. He is a guy, he has an image to uphold.
2007-11-19 07:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jupe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH!! HE did that ...and because he probably likes his hair..and took offence to that.and didn't want people to know that he was offended
2007-11-19 07:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was either offended by the joke or was checking to se if u where flirting back he checking to see if your intrested or not
2007-11-19 07:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you hurt his feelings when you said that and he was lashing out in the only way he knew possible. you should apologize.
2007-11-19 07:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha.. I think that's kinda cute..
Sorry sweetie.. you called him out and he was probably embarrassed, so he got you back. He was probably flirting anyway.
2007-11-19 07:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋