steps to breaking bad habits?

Question

watching porn and or masturbating weekly

Answer 1

You are a man, that's your problem and bad habit and you can't fix that....

Answer 2

Usually it's easier to replace a bad habit with a good habit instead of just trying to get rid of the bad habit, So find something you can do instead of watching porn, something that you will enjoy in a non-sexual way or that makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe go running or shoot baskets. Maybe during the time of day when you're used to watching porn, arrange to do some serious volunteer work. Set a goal of some kind -- physical, academic, or other -- and work hard achieving it instead of coming home and turning on the smut.

Don't let porn control you -- you need to get in charge of your own life and how you spend it. Porn is really unhealthy and teaches guys to regard females as objects instead of treating them as equal human beings, and it sets totally unreal expectations (such as how big a penis is supposed to be -- the ones on porn are mostly digitally enhanced). Breaking this bad habit is an important way to earn some real self-respect.

You could consider getting a filter on your computer (something like NetNanny; there are lots out there) that will make it harder to access the filthy stuff. Get a friend to set it up and tell him NEVER to give you the password! BTW, porn sites are very likely to give you a computer virus.

Keep at it even if you slip a few times. You are a valuable person, and you should spend your time doing things that make you proud of yourself, not watching some sicko sex stuff. Sex is beautiful at the right time with the right person. Don't let porn pollute it for you.

Masturbation without the porn is normal -- don't worry about that. But you need to get rid of your porn addiction as fast as you can.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Masterbation is completly NORMAL!!.. Just be carefull, you'll get a jack-off-arm.. lol

Answer 4

Yeah I know a way....go to church!!!! He will help you!!!