What's wrong dating African-Americans?

Question

I know some people have there likes! But I notice that most americans males don't find Black women attractive at all! I have not had a boyfriend in two years or maybe three but my Last boyfriend was White an never saw him agian he maybe have kids now. I notice when, I go out in public see Mexican men staring at me or other types of men.

I will never go out with a black man because I don't find them attractive at all and this is coming from a Black woman with light skin color.

Answer 1

Where do you find all these white men that only want white women? I have many white male friends that would date you.

Answer 2

Why do you care how other people view black women, especially since you say you don't like black men? I sense hypocrisy here.

Why does it matter that your last boyfriend is white, and what does the possibility of him having children have to do with anything?

If you don't want to go out with black men, fine. But don't come on here asking why men don't want to go out with black women.

By the way, men like all types of women. They're not all the same, ya know. MANY MANY MANY of them love black women. GET IT RIGHT!

Answer 3

Maybe they don't want to date such a persnickety idiot. Most black men are attracted to black women as far as I know, and white guys too. All of my sisters are married to non-black men, and they are all regular toned black women. You're inability to find a man has nothing to do with you being black. Maybe people just don't like you and you are trying to blame them for not finding black women attractive. BS

Answer 4

i think most white men dont understand why a black woman would go out with them. i have a sneaking suspicion that most white men find black women more attractive. this is because all humans have 90%+ of african originated genetics (some more than others). So when most ppl look at black ppl they see stronger features. Why would a black woman (men are obviously less selective than women) want to go out with a white man based on physical attraction + whatever else when she can just breed with another pure bread human (african) and not a strain that was inbread with the local neandrathols like white ppl or asian ppl, basically any strain of human that isnt african.

Answer 5

Black women of all shades are beautiful and I just happen to find black men totally beautiful looking and I am also a painter so I think black skin of all shade are exotic and very beautiful. You can always tan if you want to have that beautiful cocoa color do not worry. So sit out in the sun and glory in that gorgeous skin you have been blessed to have and tan away.I personally think open minded white men love black women dont you kid yourself for one second. The only men that would judge you by color are small minded small town type and who wants to be with them anyways? lol...

Answer 6

Sorry but I don't think it has anything to do with race, in your case I think it might the vibe you give off that sends any guy running for the hills. And I get hit on by all kinds of men without fail regardless of what I am wearing etc. etc. I think it has more to do with the fact that I try to be pleasant and exude pleasantness...

You should give it a try...maybe you won't continue to be dateless...

Answer 7

I'm from the midwest (OKLA) and have 2 half black children and white men don't wanna date me after they see my kids. I am not "ghetto white trash" either. I am a rock n rollin, football lovin, outdoorsy, white girl who happens to have been married to a black man. (he used to get flak from his family because they said he acted "white")

White guys in my neck of the woods are typically the offspring of children of racists. The segregation era wasn't so long ago and many people remember their grandparents words and actions and have developed their views based on family history. White guys have "penis envy" is a weak excuse.

Answer 8

Nothing wrong with it but it is still a personal matter. You will meet someone who you find attractive some day. I have to say tho Never say Never. Life has a way of surprising you.

Answer 9

Maybe Black Guys don't find you attractive.

Answer 10

"ideal" or "incorrect" purely applies to issues that have certainty values, sweety, including statements, equations, and so forth. because of the fact courting others isn't a assertion or equation yet quite an action, courting others can not be ideal or incorrect. bearing directly to "ideal" or "incorrect" in the legal experience, you're unfastened to this element and go alongside with whomever you elect, no depend their race, as no regulation can limit who a individual chooses to socialize with. regardless of the shown fact that, your selection to sidestep courting Black and White-individuals would be "incorrect" in case your motives for doing such are illogical. to illustrate, in case you prevented courting Black and White-individuals because of the fact you judged them by utilising some adverse generalisation amassed purely from some persons of that race, you would be incorrect because of the fact your reasoning for not courting persons in the entire Black and White-American race would be stereotyping, that's beside the point to the various Black and White-individuals that did not correspond to the adverse generalisation in question. If, regardless of the shown fact that, each member of the two races have been unattractive to you, (that's questionable in my view) and seems performed in significant component to courting for you, your reasoning does not be incorrect because of the fact you will have a logical reason to sidestep courting each member of that team.