Check with your doctor before trying again to find out if this was just a one time situation or if this is something that has a high risk of being repeated. He also needs to clear you physically and mentally.This is for the safety of you and your unborn child.
If cleared and this is really something you want to do then by all means go ahead. Only you know what you need and want.
sorry for your loss..best wishes
2007-11-19 04:29:49
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm sorry to hear about your baby. My husband and I lost a baby girl last year also. My doctor told me that I needed to give my body at least 3 months to heal before trying again. I think I might be pregnant now, but have to wait a few more days to test. You should also try to find out if the heart defect is something that is genetic. Get the OK from your doctor first.
There is a website to put your baby's name and the date she was still-born: www.angels4ever.com.
2007-11-19 04:25:26
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answered by Ryan's mom 7
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I'm sorry for your loss but The best thing you can do is wait as hard as it will be. Just give not only your body but your mind a resting period to heal.
I personally haven't gone through this but I watched as my mothers best friend did. My heart broke just watching her deal with it. Her and I had the same due dates so we became very close too. I was actually sitting waiting for my regular OB check up when her mother walked in to the waiting room she pulled my aside to explain what was going on. My heart just tore apart. I cant think of anyone who wanted or deserved a baby more than her and her husband. They too thought about conceiving right away after, but unfortinutely for them it was in her best health interest to get her tubes tied. She wouldn't ever be able to carry a healthy baby full term.
Talk to your doctor before planing anything. I beg this of you.
I pray not but there may be a hidden health reason as to why your daughter had this heart defect. And if there is a doctor can help you through your next pregnancy and give you peice of mind.
That and please give your heart time to rest, I could only imagine how "crazy" you'd go worrying about it happening again if you were to get pregnant so soon.
2007-11-19 04:45:42
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answered by Anonymous
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I understand your need/want to get pregnant again ASAP but you have to think about your health as well. You need to give your body a few months to get back to normal before TTC again, that way you have a better chance of having a healthy, successful pregnancy this time.
I am very very sorry for you loss, I can't imagine how hard that is.
2007-11-19 04:23:19
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answered by Anonymous
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answered by ? 4
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God bless you and your baby. I am so sorry. My daughter is 20w1d and if she lost this baby it would be devastating for all of us.
Now, my mother had a miscarriage when she was 4 and a half months and when she miscarried, they done a D&C and she bled for a few days and then never had another period. She was pregnant with my brother. He was born healthy.
Good luck and again, I am so so sorry.
2007-11-19 04:37:15
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answered by ROBIN T 4
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I am so sorry for your loss! I think you need to take some time out from pregnancy to grieve for the baby you lost, i understand that you want to have another baby strait away to fill that void in your life but nothing will replace the baby you have lost. take things slowly and easy!
2007-11-19 04:28:42
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answered by Baby Dee 3
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So sorry that you lost a little angel, to think that she is with Jesus
and you will see her again;
when my first born son was delivered, we had a girl in the ward who had lost her baby and I let her hold my son in her arms until she felt comforted
2007-11-19 04:31:47
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answered by sego lily 7
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I really think you should wait awhile. Having a stillborn child must be a really huge emotional blow - and you don't want your next child to turn into an emotional replacement.
I urge you to wait 6 months to a year to cope with your loss and move forward from there.
2007-11-19 04:30:27
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answered by SavetheEmu 3
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Miscarriage rate is very high when you get pregnant right after birth / miscarriage. I would wait for your sake and for your next child's sake. Give your body time to heal so that this doesn't happen again.
2007-11-19 04:24:55
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answered by Anonymous
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