I used to be able to talk to both boys and girls about a year ago without feeling uncomfortable and alot of my friends were boys then but I hung out with a few girls.
About half a year ago I met my exgirlfriend's bestfriend and then I met my exgirlfriend and we're bestfriends and I gradually stopped hanging about with boys and lately alot of my exgirlfriend's exboyfriends have been around and I found it really uncomfortable and I've talked to these guys before when they were going out with my ex and I didn't feel this uncomfortable and I was also being very moody around other guys today and felt the exact same and one of my ex's exs made me abit angry and I slammed him against the wall without thinking about it and then my ex's boyfriend made me angry and I slammed him against the wall and I just felt really uncomfortable today around any guy and I was very moody around them, when I was just with the girls I was ok...
2007-11-19 04:16:01 · 9 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
...but I just felt like killing any guy I saw.(Oddly my exgirlfriend didn't seem bothered that I slammed her boyfriend against the wall.)
Why am I only feeling comfrotable around girls and getting easily anoyed by boys?
2007-11-19 04:17:24 · update #1
The main thing that gets me about guys is how immature they are.
By the way I'm 15 and my ex is 12 going on 13.
2007-11-19 04:20:40 · update #2
I'm not gay, I'm straight, I just thought this section would be a better place to get answers for this sort of question.
2007-11-19 04:21:48 · update #3
I am not the best person to ask this question today, as my guy just walked out on me and then tried to kick the pants out of my door when I was out, the neighbours called the police and he is threatening all sorts, so my response would be its because many guys are such jerks. Wny? Because they find it really hard to be honest about how they are really feeling, much less talk about it, so they find other, often inapropriate ways to express themselves. When you are straight down the line honest talking like we are, it is intensely irritating. But like I say, I could be a bit biased today.
2007-11-19 10:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Tefi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go slamming anyone against walls or be hanging out with your ex's ex boyfriends
That is an unhealthy situation
Try and make some new friends away from this circle - especially some male friends.
They're not all bad like you seem to think.
2007-11-19 04:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like there's a lot of ex's here!
I don't suppose you're a teenager full of rageing hormones are you?
Try & stop worrying, hand around with your mates - male &/or female, it doesn't matter if they're mates & just try to ignore the muppets that are rattling your tin. They're not worth the potential of you getting in trouble over, I'm sure.
2007-11-19 04:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mindless 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you an adult perspective:
You're a kid with way too much focus on relationships and not enough focus on textbooks. If you've got an 'ex' whose only 13 years old, you've been dating a baby.
You're not old enough, and not mature enough for relationships.....period.
Develop some interests that go beyond wrestling with your gender identity. You've got P L E N T Y of time to sort that out.
You're probably going to reject this answer, but maybe you'll remember it when you're 25!
2007-11-19 04:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by birdman 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hi,,
Wow thats intence,,,,,,,,,,
Maby your just sick of the same friends,,
OR maby your still in love with your ex and you dont like seeing the other guys around her..or you could just be at a time in your life were you just wanna be left alone,,
What ever it is i hope you can figure it out and feel better,,,,
2007-11-19 04:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
best friends whatever you still have a thing for your ex 12/13 yr. old gf. give it time anger is all part of these "growing up years" and girls do mature faster then boys.*
2007-11-19 04:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seens you are in an earlier age to find more about your own sexual preferences...maybe you need to experiment more...try not to be mad with anyone is not their fault.......people are people the one that is changing is you.....
Seens you find more comfortable with girls as friends not girlfriends....maybe is more a boyfriend issue?
2007-11-19 04:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Catnip 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can fight your gay feelings. That's fine. But, let's hope that when you're 50 you're not picking up young guys in bathrooms. Seriously. Best of luck on your "comfort level" with girls.
Suuuuuuuuure......LOL!
"I am not gay, nor have i ever been gay." - Larry Craig.
2007-11-19 04:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You'll get over it Corey....these feelings i mean.... Promise...:)
2007-11-19 07:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋