How do i hide the flab?

Question

lol..... Ok i just had a baby 3 months ago. So i've lost weight just not all of it. I have been using a girdle. I did buy a pair of jeans and sweatshirt or two that make me look really good but as for my dressy work clothes, I'm having issues. I can't fit into anything i had anymore. I've been wearing a girdle to hide the flab but it's starting to hurt me and now it's winter i really dont have any winter dressy clothes that fit.

so i tell my husband i need some. I mean i am wearing maternity pants today. I feel like i look so ugly that i didnt wear makeup, didnt fix my hair as good as i usually do, and i feel so bad because i am not confident about the way i look.

so my day is going to suck all because i havent bought dressy clothes that fit me and look good.

so i say t his to my husband and he says, after we pay the bankruptcy lawyer (dont ask), then we can get you some..... and then under his breath says "instead of xmas presents for the kids"

Now what do i do?

Answer 1

Just get some fat friends!...lol

Answer 2

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RE How do i hide the flab?

lol..... Ok i just had a baby 3 months ago. So i've lost weight just not all of it. I have been using a girdle. I did buy a pair of jeans and sweatshirt or two that make me look really good but as for my dressy work clothes, I'm having issues. I can't fit into anything i had anymore. I've been wearing a girdle to hide the flab but it's starting to hurt me and now it's winter i really dont have any winter dressy clothes that fit.

so i tell my husband i need some. I mean i am wearing maternity pants today. I feel like i look so ugly that i didnt wear makeup, didnt fix my hair as good as i usually do, and i feel so bad because i am not confident about the way i look.

so my day is going to suck all because i havent bought dressy clothes that fit me and look good.

so i say t his to my husband and he says, after we pay the bankruptcy lawyer (dont ask), then we can get you some..... and then under his breath says "instead of xmas presents for the kids"

Now what do i do?

Answer 3

Instead of X-mas presents for the kids? WOW... I won't ask!

Try going to a thrift store (goodwill/Salvation Army) and pick up a few pieces that fit you more comfortably. You should definitely try and find a few pairs of black/gray slacks (they go with everything). That way you save $ and can get what you need. :) Try wearing your girdle every other day so it doesn't hurt your stomach.

Good luck!

Answer 4

first thing you do is stop stressing. keep a healthy state of mind. i know how financial difficulty goes, get what you need to look nice for work. at least you have a job! keep it. our family had to skip a christmas because of money before. at least you have a family, enjoy some hot chocolate and take lots of pictures together. start a savings plan and by next year you can be back on top! that is my advice. ^_^

Answer 5

Maybe he was being sarcastic... maybe not. Bust you A off and lose as much as you can. I know weight loss is hard but I pulled it off... but I wasnt pregnant or anything. Eat right and exercise and you can get back in the clothes you wore without spending money

Answer 6

try selling your maternity clothing on craigslist.. and prehaps you'll find some nice deals on there. the first thing you can do is start with is probably your hair. you'll feel better when you get a new haircut.

Answer 7

Would control top pantyhose be more comfortable than a girdle?

Answer 8

LOL I think Chris as got the right idea! :~)

Answer 9

smock tops