i go away for a 3month period and the im back home for a long weekend then away for another 3month then home emost weekends hopefully
2007-11-19 02:38:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
If it's the same girl as in your question 5 days ago: http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvzTFP7HTeK99VvnwL.T058gBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20071113080302AADf3UX
- then the answer is 100% YES . She sounds like a right McSlapper!
2007-11-19 02:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Basil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship and your girlfriend.
My husband was gone for seven months then for eighteen months and then another 13 months and I was 100% faithful, then on the other hand I know a handful of men and women whose spouses are deployed and they are out all the time with other men and women. Its sad and very disrespectful.
It takes a very strong relationship and a lot of trust to make it when you are a military family and your spouse is deployed, even if its for 2 months or 2 years. I don't want to sound mean or harsh, but if you honestly have to ask that question then you already have doubts about her faithfulness and maybe you should call it off before you leave so you have your full attention where it needs to be to keep you and yours as safe as possible. Good Luck and hopefully the two of you will be strong enough to make it through this.
2007-11-19 10:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by ξανξπξ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I dont know your girl how can I answer that? You know her, what do you think? If she loves you then Im sure she will be faithful. Where are you going in the army? She might be just as worried about you sleeping around whilst you are away? My fella joined the army when he was 18 and was based in Germany for a couple of years, some of the stories he tells me about what he got up to whilst he was out there make me shudder! Im so glad hes not in the army anymore! Lol
2007-11-19 10:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard one to answer without knowing a bit more. It depends I suppose - how serious are you? How long have you been together? Has she cheated on you before.
If you have a good, happy relationship then I see no reason why she would - if anything she will be pining for you while you are away. If you are worried you should talk to her about it - say you love her (if you do!) and you dont want to appear un-trusting but you are worried about it. I am sure she will be able to give you the answer that you need - she is the only one who can really answer this for you and then its up to you if you trust her or not. Good luck
2007-11-19 10:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Spider 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do i sense a little insecurity here ? TRUST is a major key factor in a relationship,do you trust her?ask yourself that question,should you even be thinking like this?has she cheated on you or given you reasons to doubt her in the past? if she loves you dearly then the thought wont even cross her mind,yes she will miss you,yes she will feel lonely in the evenings and in bed with just a pillow to cuddle up to,no one to wake up next to in the mornings,TRUST in one another and all will be great,bare in mind now that you are the one that is away and with a bunch of lads,ive been in the army myself and know what the lads get up to,can you honestley say that you will be the faithful one,especially when your out on the town avin a few drinks with your squaddie mates,i think you need to sit down and talk to your girl about your worries and im sure she will be thinking the very same thing about you..just remember the word TRUST and you wont go far wrong.good luck and good luck in the forces,tough job and very tough training,hope all works out for you both
2007-11-19 11:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not uncommon and yet those who don't cheat often get accused of it unfounded.
If she is the type who will ,she will no matter what.
If she starts accusing you when you get back then she probably did . and it is time to dump her before the real problems began.
This sounds like there is a problem that needs to be settled between you and her.
2007-11-19 10:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Robert F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's married to you, then I think your safe. Unless your having these doubts and end up acusing her while your gone of her sleeping around. I would tell her of your worries, if you let her know that you love her enought to worry about her and want the best for your relationship then she'll understand. But if you don't say anything how is she to know how you feel? I would honestly let her know! Good Luck!
2007-11-19 10:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mum of 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she wont, I'm sort of in the same positiin.
But i am the one in the Army. I dont see my fella for months at a time and i never cheat and as far as i know he hasnt cheated.
If she were that kind of person she would do it wether you were in the Army or at home!!
2007-11-19 10:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on your girlfriend. Not all females cheat just because their husband/boyfriend is away for a little while.
You obviously do not trust your girlfriend and have a reason to think she will cheat on you though so only you can answer that question.
Has she cheated on you before? If she cheats on you while you're home then she'll cheat on you while you are away.
2007-11-19 10:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by Madison 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
well if u have no trust where are u going? how long have u been together?
if u cannot trust her then imagine how she is thinking (army lads have a reputation when out on the town)
trust her unless she has given u reason not 2
2007-11-19 12:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋