Like if you're on a date with a man or you're hanging out with a man and you get the impression (for whatever reason) that he wants to have sex with you.... does that make you upset and/or turn you off?
2007-11-19 01:24:40 · 14 answers · asked by egn18s 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Only if I'm not attracted to him myself.
And then I just get uncomfortable around him, not so much upset or turned off (since I wasn't turned on to begin with.) I basically want to edge away before I inadvertently give him ANY encouragement.
2007-11-19 09:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not been on a date for a while, since I am married. However, if women had sex with every guy they ever went on a date with ( in most of the cases guys feel the need to have sex afterward ), where would they have the energy to accomplish anything else in their lives? So, when someone we feel very little or no attraction for starts acting like he is desperately hungry for something he has no right to ask for, we do feel threatened and very uncomfortable. Most females have pretty large personal space, we don't like being pressured into any kind of intimacy. So, unless a female is showing you her own interest, do keep yourself in check, dear.
2007-11-19 23:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since I lay down the rules and expectations from the beginning, I would just laugh if he actually thought he has a chance to have sex that early on. It's one thing to want, it's another to actually think you can get it and try despite what you've been told. I don't appreciate my clearly stated wishes being disregarded by someone's penis, so it would be a turnoff and if what I told him was so insignificant for the penis to take over, there wouldn't be a next date. I wouldn't care who it is.
2007-11-19 10:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It would depend on how likely I'd be to ever have sex with him. For example, I went to grad with one of my best friends, and I'm fairly certain he was trying to get me to drink so I'd end up sleeping with him. I'm not attracted to him in the slightest, so I wasn't too thrilled about that. On the other hand, one of my other guy friends and I have a tendency to snuggle up with each other when we're hanging out with our friends, and if he was doing so as a hint that he wanted to sleep with me, I wouldn't mind as much.
2007-11-19 09:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That would depend on whether I wanted to have sex with him.
2007-11-19 12:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by smoofus70 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. As long as he doesnt act like a dirty sleeze. If there is super hot chemistry you can pick up on though..thats hot.
2007-11-19 13:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who it is and if the feelings are mutual. If it were my husband, I definitely would be turned on...if it were someone else...big turn off. :)
2007-11-19 10:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he only wants sex for sex, YES. If its part of a real relationship (for me anyway) no.
LOL Tracey you told our secrets! I really lust after pot belly's and hairy ears.
2007-11-19 10:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by professorc 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No, why would it. Now if he doesn't take no for an answer that is a completely different scenario.
2007-11-19 12:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes. i can easily be nice to a guy...
but if he shows sexual interest in me..i turn completely cold towards him.
( sigh) i really try not to let my past bother me...but if in that circumstance..it would.
but im lucky...no one wants to have sex with me...so its all good.
lol tracey..ur so mean.. >:)
2007-11-19 10:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋