Shouldn't we just be honest and tell the bloke you suck, tell him what we want so he get's it right? Why spare feelings?
2007-11-19 00:52:07 · 23 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ha ha lionht007; did that happen to you, somebody hurt your little feelings---suck it up..It's a question!
2007-11-19 02:23:12 · update #1
Normally I don't fake it, I don't have to. I have been a few guys that I faked it to make them feel ok. Some people are compatible some or not. Just because he didn't do it for you doesn't mean he sucks in bed for someone else. I would never tell someone they suck and possibly ruin there self confidence. I just wouldn't have a sexual relationship with them anymore.
2007-11-19 03:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by angel of senn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's that bad, sure tell him . I've met my share of dead lays and lied to them about how good they were. They were there to get my rocks off and thats all, Now, I finally learned my lessons and tell them what I want and ask what they want. After 30 years of sexual practice , you'd think all women would be accomplished partners. Wrong!! Some are still dead. And unless they are told exactly what do do don't know where to go passed the kissing, hugging stage.
The sexual revolution seemed to have passed a lot of people by. LOL
2007-11-19 02:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by reinformer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like we lie sometimes so it wont bring on other things. Men automatically think that if you didn't enjoy it, you want someone else, even when thats not the case. It makes it to were you don't have arguments. Its a lot of reasons girl. To many to name. God help us all!!!!!!!!!!!! But you just have to tell him after awhile, cause if doesn't get better, it'll just fustrate you.
2007-11-19 01:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mom to a MicroPreemie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be nice about it and talk to him or her and tell them you would like it differently because you like it better that way.
If you come right out and say they are a bad lover, be prepared for some serious consequences regardless of who you are or what type of relationship you have with that person.
2007-11-19 09:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes everyone should be honest .That is what's wrong with people today.Their not honest and then they try and change you once you are hooked.If they suck they should be told in a respectful manner.People can be honest and open without being rude.
2007-11-19 01:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by lollypop 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have never faked it. Why should I cheat myself out of getting as much pleasure as he's having? I usually will show him what I like and then if he still can't get it right..I'll just say STOP, I'll do it myself... lol
2007-11-19 01:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by ZarahzMA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can cause deep seated anxiety resulting in the complete inability. You would be better to teach him in a kind manner.
You are one Yummy Mummy so that could be a factor in his performance.
2007-11-19 04:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not one of those women that fake it....would rather be honest and say "it ain't happening this time".....My husband is awesome...but sometimes it just doesn't happen and I would rather be honest then lie to his face...and he would rather me be honest as well...
2007-11-19 00:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we fake it just to get it over with and go to bed without the drama.
2007-11-19 01:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by J Mack 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't fake it, I really enjoy it! If he is no good than you should tell him. lol Funny question!
2007-11-19 04:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋