2007-11-19 00:33:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't ever really let go, but you do move on, as I have. I am in the same situation as you. He was probably your first love, as was mine. Because he left you, it is always harder for the other person to let go. I think about my ex all the time and sometimes wonder what it would be like to run in to him again and start a friendship, and talk about the good old days, but I know it will never happen. I have never seen my ex in 25 years he moved far away, but I always wonder and think about him and so will you. So just carry on with the life with who your with now and keep your memories as I do. God Bless!!
2007-11-19 01:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been wasting your life all these years? I hope not. If you date and meet new people , then I don't see how you can still hold onto that candle. Sounds like you are sitting home reminiscing and that is just sad. Go out and mingle girl!
2007-11-19 09:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up. He left you 20 years ago look at all the life you have wasted. He didn't want you then don't think he wants you now. Go find a guy and make up for the 20 years of misery you have put yourself through.
2007-11-19 08:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go find out what you been missing the last 20 year. Are you with someone now? Look at all the wax you used up on........nothing. What a waste of YOU.
2007-11-19 08:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you have wasted your life looking in the rear view mirror. Blow out the candle and start a new flame elsewhere.
OH, the possibilities!!!!!
2007-11-19 09:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you had to go through that. What I am more sorry about though is how much you are missing out on. You sooooo deserve to be happy and this life is so incredibly short.
Whether you spend your days alone or you find a new love, its time to think about you and your happiness. Look out for you.
2007-11-19 08:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by reneej 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
having feelings is OK but don't let them take a hold of you just accept that these feelings may never really go away but keep living and looking for someone if that what you want tor life your life very happy and single. good luck
2007-11-19 09:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Paul H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-19 08:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow the candle out!
2007-11-19 08:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some help, it's over with, he's gone, you need to move on, you are wasting your life thinking about him.
2007-11-19 09:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋