He likes guys has had 2 boyfriends but dosent like being intimate he was gay then bi then confussed. He has made statements like he think he subconscioulsy chose to be gay because its "easier". He has been with a guy and it didn't feel right but he still insist he is gay but he says stuff like I don't like being intitmate I just like cuddling and kissing its so weird .. Then he said he thought he was asexual for a while its so weird !!Do you think he gay or not does he not like being intimate because he's not gay or not ready dosen't he sound strange.
2007-11-18 21:54:08 · 8 answers · asked by in love .. 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He's gay sounds like he's just afraid to take it up the ***. Thats what I think.
2007-11-18 21:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Hate the ignorant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one subconsciously or otherwise chooses to be gay or straight. Sexuality is NOT a choice.
At the moment he sounds as though he isn't ready or hasn't completely accepted himself.
Since when has being gay been easy????? I don't any gay guys
that would say growing up gay was easy.
The straight life is much easier.
He sounds like he is questioning his identity and sounds young. Whats the rush. He should take some time and know himself before getting into serious relationships.
2007-11-19 06:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by Phil K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this person should do fine without the ideas of "gay", "bi", or "asexual". Attributing oneself to one of those words does not make one happy. There must be other reasons. Maybe he is very lonely. Maybe nobody loved him so much as he expected.
2007-11-19 14:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's gay but the part he doesnt like is what'society' thinks;which is why i think a lot of gays or bi's move on to manchester or Brighton in uk
2007-11-19 06:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's sound very confused right now. Give him some time.
2007-11-19 05:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds gay, but, hey, he'll have a nice clone after he goes through binary fission
2007-11-19 05:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS GAY AS A PEACOCK FEATHER. JUST DOES NOT WANT ANY STRINGS ATTACHED.
2007-11-19 05:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is
2007-11-19 06:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by iamme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋