there is this guy that i have known for about 7 and a half years. he has had numerous girlfriends and always was dating 2 or 3 girls at the same time. well, about 3 weeks ago, i found out that he was engaged to be married. well, a girl that i know, wants to have him as her booty call, or whatever the hell you want to call it . what i was wondering is if i should tell his soon to be wife that he will run around on her after they get married? please help me out b/c i want to tell her, but then again i do not want to break her heart.
2007-11-18 17:12:02 · 15 answers · asked by mud_riding_girl07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it would be better to tell her now than after she has a child and ends up with out a daddy or husband to help
2007-11-18 17:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably already knows if he's that much of a playboy, but is in denial. But i would tell her that way if she doesn't you'll be doing her a favor. Breaking her heart now won't hurt as bad as having to explain to her kids why dad went away to love another women. Don't over dramatize as an excuse it will hurt but she will get over it so much easier now.
2007-11-18 17:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a hard question as it could go either way, she could be really grateful to you for telling her or it could cause problems for you, all I can say is that if you knew that my man was cheating I would want to know!
2007-11-18 20:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u miserable creature. u re pathetic. did he dump u and u re still bitter? so guess what - if he dumped u it doesn't mean he will do the same to his wife. he didn't love u or those other girls, and he loves his wife. so if u don't want to hear smth mean in your address - and mean the only thing u will hear from a loving woman if u try to tell her smth bad about her man or her kids - stay shut and take care of your miserable life. cos u do have a miserable life - otherwise u wouldn't care about someone else'e marriage or happiness
2007-11-18 17:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
regardless of what your buddy advised you...it rather is none of your corporation and all would be happier in case you preserve your mouth close. His new lady buddy is none of your corporation the two, in spite of if it makes you indignant. they're ending their marriage mutually...they're the two allowed to flow on with their lives.
2016-10-01 04:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's any of your business. Unless you don't mind losing a friend of 7 yrs. Then again I couldn't be his friend because a cheater is usually a liar also.
2007-11-18 17:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by witchywoman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
People seem to think you should keep your mouth shut..however, if it were their partner running around I bet they'd want to know. I would! Do the right thing.
2007-11-18 17:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Freaked out 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i guess if that's all you have to do is be involved with someone else affairs then go ahead. But to be honest its not your business or concern. I always wonder how you can not have a life are you that bored? do you not have a relationship of your own most relationships are suffering from lack of attention maybe that's yours.
2007-11-18 17:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you know this girl as you say then I think that you have an obligation to tell her and then what she does with that info is up to her.
2007-11-18 17:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sylvia C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't waste your time she won't believe you and even if she does he will tell her your just jealous because you wanted him and he didn't want to have anything to do with you.
2007-11-18 17:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋