anyone have any tips to save a marriage that work? I found a blog that has a guide for this thats suppose to be really good at http://www.helpsavemarriagenow.blogspot.com but I have not had a chance to read it yet. Does anyone have any tips to save a marriage that you have tried? Thanks
2007-11-18 16:55:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This may not be a great tip but just an idea. Sit down with your spouse and tell all the things that attracted you to him/her in the first place. All the cute & fun things you experianced together in the beginning, the reason why you got married in the first place. And then your spouse does the same. You have to go back to the beginning & relive & talk about these things and ask, "do we really want to let all that go"? Couples therapy is always an option also.
2007-11-18 17:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by jognmiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother buying an e-book that will tell you on how to save your marriage, if the only way to save it is by your own self. If you think that your marriage is a failure and counseling doesn't work out. Then what you have to do is have a heart to heart talk with your husband. Tell him exactly what you feel about the situation and talk about the problems that your marriage been facing right now. Don't nag and shout voices. Just talk in moderate way let both of you tells what you both think about your situation. And tried to listen. I'm saying to talk and not argue. Because sometimes when we confront our husbands or wife regarding the problem in the marriage we tend to end up arguing and fighting. But for a marriage to work we have to understand, listen, forgive to whatever done and be calm. A good communication will make things work out.
2007-11-18 17:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by arlene_reigne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be more helpful if you explained the problem. Your question is too generic. I think you if you want to save your marriage, then stop looking for short cuts. Take the time to read the advice in the blog, look at other websites, read books, seek marriage counselling. Maybe that is the problem, you look for the easy way out and now have problems in your marriage. Marriage takes time and effort and love; not band-aid solutions that may help in the short term. If you want results then invest the time. Your marriage is what you make of it. What you put in is what you get back in return.
2007-11-18 17:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sevannah D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it is too late.
In times of trouble, try to keep your temper, talk to your other.
If they are in need or are doing some work give them a hand.
Marriage life seems to hit a speed bump when the sexual chemistry dies down. Try to light some sparks by having dinner somewhere nice.
Although there are some cases where it is too late but see how you go.
2007-11-18 17:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring God into your marriage!
The entire gift of marriage was given to us by Him.
We spend all this money and time for the weddings and were in a church (some of us) and then we dont even bring God into our marriage. We dont work for it or within.
I say for you and your husband to make a conscious decision to serve God-your marriage will blossom I tell you no lie!
Read Ephesians 5:21-33 in the Holy Bible you and hubby and study on those words.
2007-11-18 17:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by butterrum28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only tip I know is to deal with problems rather than ignoring them and hoping they will go away.
2007-11-18 16:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋