It sounds like your wife may not be happy about the way her body looks. It is especially normal after having a baby or after suddenly gaining a lot of weight. You did not say how long this has been going on? You can't just make her get rid of her shyness or get rid of anything she feels just like that. She needs to feel more confident in herself. You can help her feel beautiful and maybe little by little she will fully succumb naked to you in bed.
2007-11-18 17:16:32
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answered by jognmiles 3
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make sure she knows how beautiful she is to you.... be sure you have never crossed any boundaries by maybe mentioning something you think she should change-- this causes insecurities... leading to shyness. there also maybe things she possibly has not been open with you about such as previously being sexually abused?(this maybe a long shot, but very possible). Being abused can do weird things to you. All in all, the only thing you can really do is work with her, complement her and if she doesn't feel comfortable don't force it!
2007-11-18 16:58:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Several ideas- number one- ramp up the romance. Foreplay starts in the mind- so keep it tastefully going 24/7. Get her a gift card to a lingirie store- give her the idea that you'd like to see her in something like that. My fiancee is a bit self conscious about her appearance, and Im breaking that down by staring at her when we're together to the point of ignoring just about everythign else. Your reaction is the material she needs to build her self image up- so give her as much as you can.
2007-11-18 17:30:09
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answered by kttphoenix 5
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That comfortable level that most married couples have will take you longer seeing as it's an arranged marriage. You just need to take it slow. You could always open up to her since she is your wife and tell her your nervous, but that it doesn't have anything to do with her. Maybe there is something she could do to make it easier for you. Bless your marriage :)
2016-05-24 03:45:22
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answered by ? 3
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you cant make her get rid of the shyness.
keep the lights off,and light a candle, once she removes her clothes,give her lots of compliments.
it may not be that she is realy all that shy about it, it maybe that she doesnt feel good about her body - so with that in mind give her lots of compliments
2007-11-18 16:48:06
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answered by country_girl 5
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depends on why. if you two are newly married and inexperienced together, it may just take time. if she's unsure of how she looks, you may need to make her feel more beautiful. maybe its because you're asking her and she feels awkward. you might try foreplay that includes slowly removing each others clothes. she may be more comfortable in the dark
2007-11-18 16:47:03
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answered by twosey ♥ 5
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tell her how beautiful she is. sounds like she is not comfterable with the way she looks. give her some confidence in herself and never tell her anything negative about her body. make her feel like a love godess.
2007-11-18 16:47:56
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answered by shann l 1
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SHOULD?
I think that you might be part of the problem.
This activity must be consensual!
2007-11-18 16:54:45
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answered by Mr realistic...believer in truth 6
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you can"t just tell her you must convince her that she is beautiful to you and you don"t find beauty in any other women but her
2007-11-18 17:27:34
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answered by Minetto 6
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not going to. turn off the lights. don't push the issue.
2007-11-18 16:41:12
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answered by Anonymous
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