Pornography wrong?

Question

Are there people still out there that believe pornography is wrong? If so, are you married/seriously dating and does your significant other feel the same way? What happens when one messes up?

We both think it's wrong. I'm just curious of others' thoughts.

Answer 1

First of all, pornography is the last thing you want to evaluate your sex life on. Sure they have some cute ideas, but they edit scenes with looping, multiple camera angles and overacting by the women to make it look like all amazing. Remember- its fiction.

Second, pornography is naturally addictive. No matter what people say or how tough you think you are, most people will get addicted from the first or second sampling, particularly men who the entertainment and advertising industry have poisoned into at least subcons. thinking they have to mate with anything with a pulse. Some women may not have an issue with their man watching it, but they sure don't like where it leads when it goes out of control.

Sure, there are people with strong wills who can never look at it again. Kudos for you- you're in a small bunch. Most of us would go further and further into it to the point of causing MAJOR PROBLEMS in other areas. '

The last thing I will ever try is to tell someone how to live, largely bc I don't want anyone doing that to me. If you want to use porn, you are quite free to. It is up to everyone what their values and choices are. The key is to be honest about what pornography is so you can make the best decision about what you think of it.

Answer 2

You Need to realize that Porn Destroys! See how it has destroyed the Lives of those who have gotten involved in that Industry
Dead Porn Stars Memorial
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r0q_VGacfNk

The Average Life expectancy of the Average American is 78.1 Years
The Average Life expectancy of a Porn Star is 37.43 Years!!!
http://danielrjennings.org/TheAverageLifeExpectancyOfAPornStar.html

Perhaps more than anything else, Satan has succeeded in twisting and perverting sex. He has taken what is good and right (loving sex between a husband and wife) and replaced it with lust, pornography, adultery, rape, and homosexuality. Pornography can be the first step on a very slippery slope of ever-increasing wickedness and immorality (Romans 6:19). The addictive nature of pornography is well documented. Just as a drug user must consume greater and more powerful quantities of drugs to achieve the same “high,” pornography drags a person deeper and deeper into hard-core sexual addictions and ungodly desires.
http://www.gotquestions.org/pornography-Bible.html


Ted Bundy, Pornography, the Fatal Addiction - Final interview by Dr. James Dobson
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcuU17TOgAQ

Answer 3

I know alot of people watch it but personally I believe it is between you and your significant other. I you are upset by it then you need to communicate that. My husband and I feel differently about this. We are going through a divorce now. He lied about it all of the time even though he promised not to do it. I am a very sexual person and did almost everything he wanted when he asked for it....so I didn't think that I was being to harsh when I asked him to stop it. He knew it was wrong too because he only did it when I was asleep. I didn't even know he was doing if for 6 months until I found a debit card to a bank that we didn't use. Nice...huh?

Answer 4

We don't think it's wrong. I think its mostly poorly shot and lacks imagination but that's just me. We both feel the same way. One can't mess up when it comes to porn. It's a legal, adult activity that a person either choses to view or not. We're in a marriage, not a parent child relationship.

Answer 5

Pornography isn't incorrect by applying itself. it is the form you manage it. If it starts off taking on your existence, limiting your social activities, schoolwork, kinfolk, then that's seen as an habit.

Answer 6

I am a Christian, my husband is a Christian-we follow the Holy Bible and it definately says that lusting after others is a Sin.

That is exactly what I did when I was addicted to porn about 2 years ago. It put such a strain on my marriage and my husband was withdrawn from me and my crazy porn attitude.
I say its definately something you shouldnt bring into a marriage.

P.S. If your significant other says "We need to watch this, it will get us in the mood" That is a croc! Say no and tell them they will watch you and you only!

Answer 7

yes, I believe pornography is wrong. Yes I have caught my husband with it one time. He dosen't see anything wrong with it. He paid dearly for that. I took that as a way of saying he isn't happy with my body or the way I look. when one messes up I believe it should be discussed and to figure out why one is looking at it in the first place. My husband claims he would't get mad if i looked at it cause he says they are only pictures. I feel differently though

Answer 8

I believe pornography is wrong, but only for me. I am not going to thrust my moral beliefs on anyone else.

Besides, I am of the belief that the fun is in the doing, not the watching.

Good luck.

Answer 9

No. Not at all. But as far as it doesn't lead you to do wrong things or cultivate bad feelings. Every Human and Living being has an Urge to sex and if the urges are satisfied by seeing porns then go ahead.

Answer 10

it is only wrong when yiour significant other feels disrespected by it. i firmly believe that if you can't watch it while your partner is sitting next to you, you shouldn't be doing it. porn should be an addition to a sex life, not a replacement.