I used to make fun of this girl and i think she hated me for that..now it turned out that i like this girl...i hate to say this but yeah...but then i think she found out about it...she started to ignore me..what should i do? whats the best way to apologize? and can i make up for the things ive done? how? i need to know..
2007-11-18 16:22:44 · 6 answers · asked by jkim_28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, this is gonna sound kinda crazy but: apologize. Just come up to her and tell her you know that you were really immature before but you're sorry if you at any time hurt her feelings. At least you'll get to talk to her for a while. Don't expect her to forgive you right away (or ever, I don't know how mean you were to her after all). It's up to her, at least you will have done everything you could. Just be honest and sincere.
2007-11-18 16:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by whistler45 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know how many times I've heard this! I always told my kids to be careful who they pick on in school, because chances are, you'll REALLY like them someday! LOL
The first thing you have to do is decide if she remembers or not. If you are sure that she does, you WILL need to eat some crow. Apologize. If she ignores you, get on your knees and apologize! That should at least make her smile. Then you are going to have to pester her about to death to get her to just consider going out with you. Have fun with it. If you make it too serious, she'll back off. Show her that you've changed, that you're fun, and that you really regret your sorrowful youth. Daily flowers are nice too. lol Good luck, have fun!
2007-11-18 16:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a valuable lesson that needs to be learned by everyone. "Never burn the bridges behind you" In case you don't know what that means, it means that you should always treat people nice regardless of whether you like them or not. One day you may need them in your life, or need them to help you in some way. Life tends to be like a circle sometimes. People that you have know previously may creep right back into your life through a job, a new friend, your family, your church, etc... If you have treated them badly, it will come back to bite you in the butt.
In the meantime, you may try to apologize to her directly. If you are lucky, she may find the heart to forgive you.
2007-11-18 16:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mak fun of a gurl,the best way to apologize is to write a letter.Tell her why you made fun of her,tell her how bad you feel now,and you really like her.
2007-11-18 16:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Pro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call her, I know it will be real hard and you'll Be sooo nervous. but you never know something wonderful can happen. you know that when little girls like little boys they beat them up. I'm talking about 2nd and 3rd graders.... I know that your much older ... You should just call her...good luck
2007-11-18 16:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off that's what you get. Shame on you. Be straight with her. Tell her how sorry you really are.That you really like her and ask you and her can be friends. Then it's up to her.
2007-11-18 16:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by mikk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋