I have been doing grown up things with this guy for about a year, but we are not in a relationship. When he comes over he like to take pictures. He never takes them of my face he only takes them of what going on down below. He will them edit and crop them, and email them to me. My question is, is this something guys like to do, do guys add them to their collection, or do they just go back, and look at them from time to time. I asked him, and he said that in the past women were never really down for pictures, and he was shocked that I agreed to it. I am ok with it, and it does not bother me, I just wanted to know what do he do with the pictures, and why does he like taking them.
2007-11-18 16:19:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think "whistler" has the best answer. I don't think he is out to get me. I took pictures with my boyfriend of 5 years, and even though we are not together it does not bother me because my face is not on them, and the day we can be picked out by our vay-jay jay's only, that the day I need to stop having sex.
2007-11-18 16:34:53 · update #1
A lot of self righteous people out there, aren't there? Men (& Women) please cut her some slack will ya? She approves of it, it's her body, she's an adult -- let her do her own thing (for whatever reason she has, not your right to force your reason not do it on her -- that's a personal choice).
OK, sorry! Yeah, he's adding it to his private collection & probably flying solo when he looks at it. If he ever took your photo & included your face in it, I might be concerned, but I truly believe he's just a pervert (jollies for the memories). If your face is on there & he tries to sell it, he needs to get a model release signature from you.
Why does he like taking them? He likes what he sees & uses the memory contained in the photos to be satiated (for a short time only usually).
Take care & good luck!
2007-11-18 20:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably enjoys taking the pictures, because he likes seeing you naked. Maybe when he can't come around to do grown up things, he looks at them as a substitute.
He could also be posting the pictures on the internet or trading them with other people, that's always a possibility as well.
2007-11-18 16:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Winter Loving Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? If you under 22 stop right now. Until after college people tend to do things that are no biggie but then later with they really really hadn't.
Second are you positive their are NO face shots?
O.k. that said he can sell them, give them out, or just masturbate to them. Porn is porn and to him that is personal porn. If you have any personally identifiable stuff like tatoo's anywhere on you make sure they are not in the shot either.
2007-11-18 16:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by M G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 08:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where the hell is your dignity and self-respect? It absolutely flabberghasts me that you're willing and are not bothered by a guy taking shots of a very private area. You, my dear, need to wake up and realize he is USING you...possibly for something illegal.
This man is not your boyfriend, spouse, or even a friend. STOP letting him exploit you like this. You're headed down a dangerous path if you continue this.
2007-11-18 16:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself one question: When you are allowing yourself to be photographed, is this something you want stuck on the internet or sent to your family?
If the answer is NO - either take the pictures when he's done snapping the button or just say NO.
2007-11-18 16:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he's going back and looking at them later, and is doing solo 'grown up things' The pictures that he takes of you go into his collection of dirty magazines and are used for essentially the same purposes. It's the same reason that people make sex tapes of themselves.
2007-11-18 16:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by whistler45 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um you sound young. I would never let a man take pictures of me in a compromising position. Guaranteed that it will come back to haunt you.
2007-11-18 16:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by witchywoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have sex with a guy and let him take porn of you and you don't have a relationship? Sure you do........you are his employee. He is selling your pictures......wise up. Sooner or later your parents are going to see pics of you in the nude all over the Internet.
2007-11-18 16:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would call the police right now.
Or ask for payment. He is certainly using them to make money, so if you're into being exploited then you could possibly turn a profit.
2007-11-18 16:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋