Are American woman bad wives?

Question

We thai women are taught to be loyal subservient to the needs of our husbands, cook for them, take of the home, and give them everything they want but you are not taught that why?

Answer 1

You're an idiot. You cannot make stupid generalizations like that about American women. Many American women are very good wives and very loyal to their husbands.

My wife is American and she can cook, clean, take care of the home, AND have a career at the same time. That's very impressive. Unlike stupid Thai women, she is very smart and educated. She has both a college and professional degrees. I don't want some subservient housewife who acts like a slave to my every need. It's Thai women who make bad wives. Most American men don't want some loyal subservient wife who just wait for him to get home and wait for him to give her an order. I prefer a woman that I relate to and talk to, hear her opinion on matters instead of just agreeing with mine even if she doesn't, and just have a good laugh with. Thai women are just dumb. I want a partner and companion, not some slave.

I love my American wife. She is a very good loyal wife and mother.

Stop making up crap about American women. You don't know every American woman, so how would you know what they are taught? You don't. So shut up.

Answer 2

Amerian women are not bad wives. The American public is taught to value independence and individuality. This does not mean that we are not taught how to be good wives and mothers.

In America, subserviance is a thing of the past. Married couples are taught to teach and think of each other as equals, not the master and slave. Marriage is considered a partnership, not ownership of an individual. A good marriage consist of loyal, loving partners who love and respect each other.

We do divide the chores, depending on the circumstances, but that is becuase more and more guys here are learning to cook and clean and enjoy helping thier wives out in the house. Many women in the US are also working outside the home anymore, to help outset our rising cost of living.

It has nothing to do with American women being bad wives. It's how our culture is set up. Most women enjoy making thier men happy, and vice versa. It just depends on the individuals in the relationship.

I hope that helps.

Answer 3

American woman are taught to be loyal to their husbands just like any other woman around the world. We cook for them, take care of the home and give them almost everything that they need. Until they miss up.

Answer 4

Are your husbands taught to appreciate your loyalty, subservience, cooking, etc?
If so, then wonderful.
My (American) husband was not looking for those same qualities. Loyalty, yes, but not subservience. Someone with those characteristics would make a "bad wife" for him.
It's just different values. If you and your spouse are happy, then you should believe that other people can be happy, too.

Answer 5

Your question was "Are American women bad wives?
The answer to that would depend on the husbands point of view. I am a very independent woman and can stand on my own (good American stock the kind it took to make pioneer wives- to answer your other question,) a friend of my husbands was saying to my husband when we were just dating " you should go find someone else because she isn't like a woman should be) he was Mexican. My husband (then boyfriend) replied " she is just like I like her to be".
So again I will say but in a different way the same shoe doesn't fit everyone the same way.
We have been married for 17 years and I make sure he stays happy everyday. I can still stand on my own two feet if I had to (God forbid something should happen to him) but I am very loyal to him and plan on being married for as long as God grants me life.

Answer 6

Because of the "women's rights movement" (also called women's liberation movement) in America, women have demanded equality, which means not being subservient, being independent, and even taking the attitude of not needing a man. Unfortunately it started out as a good idea, to get more respect, but has probably gone too far.
It is a change from the traditional values of marriage for thousands of years. Now people will see if it is a good change or a bad one. My own belief is that it is bad.

Answer 7

Because we are taught to work outside the home.Some of us are taught to be submissive espcially in the south but Women get very tired working all day and cooking and cleaning.Plus tending children.Most American men are not good husbands .They are selfish.So unless the western man you like is very rich you better be prepared to work and care for the house and cook because they will exspect it.In the USA women are exspected to be like wonder woman.Work hard outside the home plus cook ,clean and care for everyone in the house.Your job is to make sure everyone in the house including kids and grampa are healthy ,taken care of and have meals and closets full of clothes.I know American women who work 3 jobs!

Answer 8

When I meet a man that will work, pay all the bills, and act like a true man (be loyal and take care of family). I will stay at home and kiss his a**. But if I have to work and take care of everything, no way!! I think in America the roles are reversing, it seems like the women, are the controllers and the thinkers. They are the ones taking care of things.

Answer 9

Do American men make terrible husbands? After all, American culture and justice system have given them so many rights and a huge sense of entitlement. Some of them actually think that women are inferior and belong at home, barefoot and pregnant. They resent a woman with a mind of her own and fear competition in the workplace from women who are capable of competing with them for jobs and promotions. Many would like things to go back to the "way they were" before women had equal rights. Even though women file for divorce at greater frequency than do men, do men actually play some part in the failure of their own marriages?

Answer 10

My husband has no complaints. I may not cook as much as a Thai wife or I may pay someone to clean the house on occasion, but he surely appreciates the money this bad American wife deposits into our collective checking account every two weeks. I make as much as he does, and he seems to really like that and doesn't mind doing his own laundry either. Women can be appreciated for more than just their domestic skills.