when me and my husband get to doing it, sometimes he is erect then not erect through the whole process whats up with that i know he dabbles in drugs sometimes is that it or has he cheated on me or what he is still young in his thirties and a lot of times its been a month since we did it why is this its frustrating.
2007-11-18 15:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Going a month without sex in a marriage isn't a good sign. I think you should talk to him and try to find out what's going on.
Good luck...
2007-11-22 14:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by **Llola** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you and your husband need to sit down and talk. If he has a problem, it can be worked out. It may be that he is doing it solo, because he isn't getting it from you, and the rare time it happens, he has already done it solo, and doesn't have the drive on demand. You really need to just get things out in the open between the two of you. Then you will have a much better understanding of your situation, and will have a better idea of why and what to do next.
I had this issue with my wife, for a while. She wasn't satisfying me, but I don't cheat, so I just took care of my own needs. But sometimes, she would want some, when I had just got my own, and it was a challenge to last long enough to meet her needs, erection wise. We discussed the issue, and discovered we were both dodging the same issue, and one that wasn't even related to sex. Things have been WAY better since, and I was so glad we talked and learned more about each other. Even after 10 years, we still needed that talk.
2007-11-18 23:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it is frustrating now just wait a few short years and it will get worse. If he is waiting a month between times now it won`t be long until he can`t get an erection at all. If you don`t use it you lose it according to Dear Abby or Ann Launders. If you enjoy sex and don`t want to be left out then you had better see a consular or start looking for another partner. It`s sad but it`s true.
2007-11-18 23:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Un-couth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every ones sex life is unique just like every marriage is unique.Only you can be the judge of that and I think other peoples opinion should not matter at all about other peoples situations.Thats why there are so many divorces today, cause people dont know how to mind their own business or get other peoples opinions instead of taking their time to work the matter out their selves.
2007-11-18 23:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first thing, sex is an important part of marriage but its not everything.
if you want to enjoy sex, its not his duty only and you also have a part to satisfy him. Are you giving your full coopeartion from your side?
Did you ever massage his body, play with pe*is. take shower together and make this whole process more fun?
So forget about his dick, it should be ok. Go and enjoy the process first. Dick will do its role by itself. If he talks about his problem when you have given his full support to him, then you may see doctor as well.
2007-11-18 23:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your husband to a doctor and possible that he may need rehab for the drugs. It could be a number of things. Also get counseling. It may be erectile dysfunction (ED). It could also be a problem with his prostate. I would advise seeing a doctor immediately Please talk to your husband about seeing a doctor.
2007-11-18 23:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♠CocoBoi♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only good erection can increase you penis size in china peoples eat bull,s penis for good erection , stamina and sexual heath start eating to day i am sure you will feel better in a week.
2007-11-19 05:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by bigtali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drugs? that would be the first place to start looking. drugs (illegal and legal) can do all kinds of crazy stuff to sexual function in men and women.
2007-11-18 23:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Franklin Delano Bluth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say the drugs people are effected in diffrent ways
2007-11-18 23:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by soyoulikenovas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he sounds like a tweak-er...who's jacking-off all the time ...sorry sweetie
2007-11-18 23:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by puffy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋