i'm bi and my husband doesn't mind, and i have never been with another female before. but i find it real hard to talk to other women let alone pick them up, i need advice!
2007-11-18 15:11:47 · 15 answers · asked by blue 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm a married bisexual woman.
If you are married, you have no right to cheat, no matter what your husband thinks about it. If he is willing to let you sleep with someone else, he does not truly love you. If you want to sleep with someone else, you do not truly love your husband. Even if you do, you shouldn't be married. Marriage is about committment and fidelity, not sleeping around because your husband thinks it's hot.
2007-11-18 15:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine 5 · 8⤊ 2⤋
If you've never been with another woman, how can you be sure you are bi? It sounds more like bi-curious to me.
Advice - don't do it. Bringing another person into the marital relationship rarely helps anyone. It generally causes more problems than it solves, and jealousy can rear its ugly head in so many ways. And that makes no difference which sex is brought into the relationship. Better to stay with him alone, or leave.
2007-11-18 23:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You also posted a question asking how to pick up chicks so my guess is that you are more on the bi- curious side since you've never really been with a woman.
2007-11-18 23:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you. I've known people in the same situation. Maybe try looking for someone on the internet. But, then that's not safe. Maybe you can try a swingers club. Most towns have one or two. There are sometimes women in there looking to go home with a couple.
2007-11-18 23:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by carriebryant2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To all those that are saying you can't be bisexual until you try a woman and are just bi-curious is not true. were you straight curious before trying the opposite sex. I don't understand bi-curious. If you have strong desires and have done for quite a long time and it hasn't gone away chances are you are bi. END OF!!!
Anyway please try this site. www.shybi.com it gives good advice to married bisexuals.
2007-11-19 14:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by starburst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist i dont agree on cheating but that is me. the best person to have your first sexual interation woud be with a friend that is the same way as you if that is not an opition then i would haveto say go to a lesbian bar and by your self a drink and wait for some one to start a conversation with you dont be to willing but also dont be to stand offish talk for a whiel tell them what you are looking for and let them know that it would be the frist time most weman like to be the frist ones
be carful on your jugment though not evryone is all sweet and pretty
2007-11-18 23:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by nbutler97 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Elaine on her advice to you. I am bi, married with a family. My wife and family come before anything else and I would never do anything that may cause them harm or unhappiness. For that reason I suppress my gay desires and I never have and never will have an extramarital affair with anyone, regardless of their gender.
2007-11-18 23:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course he doesn't mind, lol. Just talk to your husband and if he agrees to let you experiment, cool. If not, divorce him.
2007-11-18 23:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Doesn't mind" covers a lot of territory.
Would he be involved in this third party relationship too?
Maybe he should help approaching these ladies.
2007-11-18 23:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me an instant message, and we can start talking. 20/f/ms
2007-11-19 00:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Kim's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋