Does losing your virginity really gonna hurt?

Question

Does losing your virginity really gonna hurt?
If yes what's the proper way to do it?
How do you do it while causing the least amount of pain?
(iam a female virgin)

Answer 1

Depending on your age... maybe we shouldn't answer this question,.

I advise you to save yourself for that special person, like your husband. It's never worth giving to someone who just pressures you and pretends they love you. When you are young, it is very likely you are going to meet more guys who will tell you that they love you. It is best to have quality over quantity, meaning the less sex partners you have the better you will feel about yourself later in life. Believe me... men prefer a woman with less partners and experience than more partners and too many experiences.

Answer 2

It's different for everyone. For some, it is quite painful while for others, it's only slightly uncomfortable. I didn't think it was that bad. I mean, it wasn't pleasurable by any means, but I was expecting worse. But, it also depends on your hymen, whether you have one or not. Some lose theirs before their first time. One thing that helps is to start masturbating....seriously. It will help stretch things out a little. That will really help. But, you have to do it more than a couple times. I had been for a few years prior. Also, you need to be well lubricated and the guy needs to know you're a virgin and hopefully he'll care about you enough to go slowly and be gentle. The other thing is to relax. If you're nervous, you'll be more tense will can make it more painful. Other than that, not much else you can do.

Answer 3

Well of course it hurts!!! You are tearing thru a peice of membrane from ur body!!! Its gonna bleed and hurt and u will be tendar afterwards,,,, If you are really sure you want to have sex know that !!!! And make sure you are on birthcontrol and that the guy wears a condom!!!! No go if no condom!!!!! Tell him to be considerate and to make sure you are ready!! A girl needs to be REALLY wet down there for things to go slighty smoother so that will involve a lot of petting( messin around) there is no least amount of pain!!!! Its gonna hurt like hell for you no matter what!!!

Answer 4

YES! It does hurt whether you mean physically or emotionally it hurts. Most people regret their first time. Wait.... meet the right person and get married first. With sex comes heart ache! and a whole lot of other issues like STDs and pregnancy.

Answer 5

Depends on a bunch of factors, but I'm not a girl, so I really don't know how much it hurts. My gf didn't complain that much the first time, she said after a little while it stopped hurting.

Answer 6

It depends on the person. It's not excruciating pain, but it might be a little uncomfortable. There's no real "proper" way to go about it... you would just need to get used to it!

Answer 7

Yes it does hurt. The easiest way to make it not hurt would be to use lubrication and to take it slow. Inch it in slowly and take it slow.

Answer 8

In some cases it does. It is best to do lot of foreplay, use lubricant and be slow in penetration to minimise the pain. You have to be mentally prepared to receive it into you.

Answer 9

It may not hurt as bad as your memory reminding you how you gave yourself away to some undeserving punk,whom you'll probably never be married too.Most cases guys are looking to relieve themselves,not about you and your needs.

Answer 10

Yes it hurts...especially when your Dad finds out. Then there is always the unexpected child that tax dollars have to support. Get real, put sex off...