your feelings or simply refuse?
2007-11-18 13:17:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends.. I'd say for the most part, I'm extremely open minded, and willing to try just about anything he asks.. as you never know.. it might be the best you've ever had (even if you've tried it before with someone else.. he may be totally different)... however, my boyfriend and I have a mutual agreement that our bed (and intimate activities ) are ours alone.. no one else.. other than that...what he wishes.. I will try.
2007-11-18 13:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would tell him I didn't want to. He's usually respectful about what I don't like. But if he really wanted to, I would have him try to convince me until I was willing. I wouldn't go along with it until I was fully convinced. But even now, I do some things I find distasteful (like oral sex). He knows I really dislike it though, so he doesn't ask me to do it very often. Sometimes I'll just do it because I know how much he enjoys it. Plus, he does things for me he doesn't always enjoy (see movies I want to see, eat at restauraunts he doesn't like), so I figure I can compromise for him.
2007-11-18 13:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what it is exactly! I've tried new things with my husband that I may have not liked to begin with, and I do like now. What could be so distasteful? Give it a try....see where it goes...Take it from there.
2007-11-18 13:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tabatha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try it, but express your concerns to them beforehand, so they're aware of your boundaries. Then, do whatever it is slowly and maintain really good communication. If it's roleplay, then make sure you come up with a safety word - a way of saying "stop" without having to worry that they think you're still 'in role'. Good luck, and hopefully it's an enjoyable experience for both of you.
2007-11-18 13:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting my wife to ask me to do anything sexual would be surprising. Not many things I would find distasteful.
2007-11-18 13:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have to be pretty raunchy for ME to be offended, but I'd probably give it a try -- except for anything dealing with No. 1 or No. 2.
2007-11-18 13:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 12:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by janzen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I thought it distasteful , or uncomfortable I'd just REFUSE!!!
2007-11-18 13:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would refuse..I meen a relationship is about give and take,but if i thought it was disgusting or i was uncomfortable with it - i would definatly refuse - i dont care if we are married or not
2007-11-18 13:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what it was. I might try it if I have not done it before but if I still did not like it I would not do.
2007-11-18 13:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋