I will soon have 7 kids from 4 different women. But I've supported all of my kids and their mothers as well. I've had at least two jobs since I was 17. Up until two years ago I couldn't give them too much money but I never fell behind on child support. Since graduating from college I make enough to be able to give them as much as being able to maintain an income higher than national average. I admit I was foolish and careless to have so many kids before I turned 19. But I can't change that. I haven't committed any crime by simple virtue of fathering my children. In retrospect, I wish I hadn't but they did motivate me to work hard and succeed in life.
2007-11-18 13:11:55 · 34 answers · asked by Sean 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
The only thing that keeps all this from being "disgusting" is the fact that you do support them. What I read mostly saddens me, for more than one reason. You are too young to be a father, much less to so many.......you're still growing up yourself. What about the mothers......are they as young?
What about all things that you & the mothers will miss out on by having to be parents so young? It also saddens me because where were the all the parents of these women....and you? Did they not teach you about safe sex? Did they just not care? Then there are the children........what about them? It takes more than money to raise a child, not to mention, it's a life-long commitment. It saddens me to think of all the broken homes.
I'm glad you were smart enough and able to continue your education....were the mothers able to do the same? It also saddens me that young people are in such a rush to "grow up" & do "grown-up" things........they don't take the time to consider the consequences & they miss out more than they will ever know.
I am sure you have beatuiful children & love them with all your heart, but you & the mothers still had years of growing & maturing to enjoy without the responsibilties that come with children.
I hope you & all yours the best in life and I hope you keep your children from making some of the same decisions you & the mothers did.
2007-11-18 15:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by KC_Killer 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being a father is far more than sending money every month, yet you come on here trying to make out that you've done some good. Guess again. Those kids are damaged for life, and all because you have the brains of a shell fish.
2007-11-18 13:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have only commited sin against yourself. You treated your body as a playground and not a temple. I however, do not judge you; but wish you to be more careful with sexuality. I do praise you for being a real man and supporting your children. Anyone can have a child, but it takes a real man to be a father! Keep your head up, and seek first the kingdom of your Heavenly Father.
2007-11-18 13:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in God then you have been fruitful and multiplied to the best of your ability haven't you?!
Come on, why are you looking for judgement?
It isn't anybody else's business how many times you've knocked up a chick just as careless as you are.
Proceed with protection or suffer the consequences.
2007-11-18 13:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, every one makes mistakes.
I don't think you are disgusting. My fiance has 8 kids from 5 different women(myself included), and only two of those kids are mine.
God don't make any "oops". You may have effed up, but you are TRYING to be there for your children. Your kids are not mistakes.
You are not disgusting.
You are, apparently, handsome and viril, and need to insist on both you and your future partners using protection.
God bless, and don't be too hard on yourself.
2007-11-18 13:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by MamiZ-Notorious Faithful Freak 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would never think of judging you and see you are taking responsibility. I would not find you disgusting and you will not be the first or the last to do things you wish you hadn't. We all do things that we look back on and wish we hadn't done.
I think you should be proud of yourself. You are doing what you can and taking responsibility. That is more than many would do.
2007-11-18 13:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Disgusting-YES
Hard Working-YES
2007-11-18 13:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by Tbone 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, believe it or not, what you do is none of my business, nor anybody elses business. It takes two to Tango, and it looks like you are being the responsible one by supplying financial support.
2007-11-18 13:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems you have matured and learned your lessons, but i don't think you are disgusting. I'm glad to see you take care of your kids b/c SOME men can't or won't even take care of one.
I hope you learned to use protection or get a vasectomy to prevent any more kids.
2007-11-18 13:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At first I believed it to be disgusting...but at least you're willing to take on the role of a father. Congratulations! Not many men would do what you're doing.
2007-11-18 13:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by cara_fairy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋