How would you rate yourself as a lover? In what ways do you think you could improve?!?

Answer 1

Physically a 4, emotionally a 10. I am way out of shape*, but I know I make my girlfriend very happy because of my overall emotional responsiveness.

* Although I am able to do something active for an hour or two every day and an extreme sport a couple of times a month but I hurt a lot afterwards (from the extreme sport, not the regular sports). So that's where I need to improve. I think if you can do a triathlon or rock climb or white water kayak on a moments notice any time you want, you can be a physical 10, but since I can only do stuff like that once a week I need improvement, but my girlfriend likes that I figure out what is important to her and that I figure out ways to do a lot of stuff she wants (besides the adventure stuff).

Answer 2

I'm a 9 on a 1 to 10 scale. I can be lazy at times, thats probably what could improve. But I think I'm a great lover, my husband thinks so too :)

Answer 3

i'm not sure, it sounds like she is wanting a bit of excitement. you're both young and with the three kids so close together she might be trying to find away to feel more independent and like a woman rather than just a wife and mum. This doesn't excuse her behaviour and to be honest once trust is that broken it will be hard to salvage a healthy relationship. what i would say is that you should go to couples therapy to sort out how you both feel, also if you decide to split this can be an environment where you work out the details and transition in a neutral environment so it's not played out by arguments in front of your kids. good luck

Answer 4

A 10 but only when I was with my soul mate. Our quickie was an hour and a half LOL We had sex all night many times. Our typical session was about 4 hours straight. When I'm with anyone else I would say I can range from a 4 to an 8 depending on the attraction. I have only worshipped one woman in my life.

Answer 5

To say I am a great lover , sounds a lil" like bragging. I can always improve by listening an being more submissive...you ask.

Answer 6

im not quite the perfect 10 even though im very good looking.superbly fit with an awesome body,have all the moves and sublime touch but my one failing is I sometimes get a bit carried away and forget how big I am and can be painfull for women the again nobody is perfect

Answer 7

Well lets see....I hate to say I'm really really good....but standing ovations tend to make me think I'm not all that bad.

I still think that making a woman believe that she is the most beautiful and desirable woman on earth is the best foreplay a man can use.

Answer 8

You must be a good lover with your spouse not outside of marriage.

Answer 9

im 27 , male , in derbyshire , i think im the best shag in the world , although i was better when i was 18 ,

and as a partner , i think im a great person..


i think i could improve by finding the perfect woman, i fear i will never find her

Answer 10

i rate myself pretty highly even though the only girl i've gone all the way with is my gf of almost 3 years (i'm 21). mainly cos i consider myself very willing to please my partner and do whatever it takes to make her feel good.