I'm very civil with the ex wife and i want her back. She remarried and had 2 more kids after having 3 of my own with her. I have brief phone conversations with her and she still laughs at my jokes but I'm afraid to hint my feelings towards her. How can I show her i still love her without sounding like a complete jerk and having her husband lash out and come knocking on my door. Or should i just let things be and accept that if she wants me back, she'll let me know. All her kids hate the hubby. He is too strict and a real asshole.
2007-11-18 12:51:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All you can do is be honest with her. Take a chance and see what happens. You can say something like you know I will always love you? See what she says...But, on the other hand she is married and if she is happy then you need to find another....sorry
2007-11-18 12:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, I think you should let it go, you can always tell her how you feel and if she feels the same I'm sure she'd let you know. You just need to remember that the marriage ended for a reason and that sometimes you will be better friends than you ever were partners. If by chance you were to reignite the marriage would you really be satisfied, really happy after all she has re-married and had more children and not your own do you think you'd hold resentment? Is she happy? If you love her you'll want her to be happy, even if that means that she's married a "too strict - ********" - hae you ever thought maybe thats what she needs? If so than you'd be better off finding someone that loves you just the same. I wish you well.
2007-11-20 12:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
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2016-04-23 23:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-18 13:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-25 09:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is still married, leave her be.
If she is single, then let her know your feelings.
If she accepts, then go forward.
If she rejects, then let it go.
2007-11-18 12:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by boilermakersnoopy433 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋