This 25 y/o guy invites a girl he went on 3 dates with to his housewarming party, and he asks her to crash over, but she chooses to leave. He has been pursuing her and impressing her for about 3 weeks and asked her to become his gf (too soon). His intention is just after sex (a lot of red flags) but she's not the type to sleep around. He thinks by making her his gf, she will more likely to give it up. The night before the party, he was so positive that she will crash over and sleep with him, that he already prepared an exit strategy after he has sex with her. He started telling her that he will soon be fired from his job and even asked her why she is still hanging out with him since he has nothing to offer her. At the housewarming, his plan to sleep with her failed and she only made out with him when he dropped her off. Will he give up pursuing her or stick around to make her his gf? How long will he stick around for if she never gives it up to him.
2007-11-18 12:26:58 · 4 answers · asked by angelgirly555 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be a long time, he sounds pretty stupid.
2007-11-18 12:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rahouel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what kind of person is he, he sounds like a person who only goes out with people to have it. Sorry to say I think he will try for a long time when I like someone I giveup eventually but am always open for him when he changes his mind so personally I don't think he ever will give up tell him that give the girl a break for a while til she is ready to go out with him .
2007-11-18 20:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this situation, the possibility is depending on people individually coz nowadays nothing's impossible... If he's really pursuing her bcoz of sex, i dont think he'll stick around too long...but if he's not after sex (meaning maybe he really likes her), then i'll say he'd continue as long as he could....considering that he doesnt find anyone better in between..All the best!!!
2007-11-18 20:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by ladylike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post his information on "girldon'tdatehim.com"
As long as she keeps the door open, he will keep his hands on his zipper.
Close the door!
2007-11-18 20:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋