If you can start it all over, whom do you want to be with?
2007-11-18 12:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if u break up with a boyfriend or girlfriend, u walk away and it usually costs nothing, but in a marriage, u loose half of all u own, plus the years of love u invested. in some cases u may have to pay alimony, loose your pension, if i could choose i would much rather just have a boyfriend. it cost money to divorce, plus not to mention the emotional pain involved.
2007-11-18 12:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im happily married to the most awesome man in the world. breaking it off with a bf/gf is much easier to get a divorce from your spouse because
A. b/f/g/f- you can break it off and have nothing to agree/disagree upon in court when you get a divorce.
B. you don't have the fiancial problems when filing for a divorce.
C. you don't have any wedding rings to throw away
D. your not devoting your life to a b/f-g/f
2007-11-18 12:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with your boyfriend is an easy getover some say but either way it will be hard if you divorce with a spouse you will be miserable your whole life greaving over your descision. Good luck with your problem
2007-11-18 12:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference and the gf/bf break up thing is nowhere what stress and truama one goes through when it invovles marriage.
As for the second question it is first and current wife. Nobody can replace her on my life.
2007-11-18 12:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comparable elderly couples are ok yet i could say no. i think of 10 year hollow is purely too extensive. the greater youthful better half would have distinctive perspectives to issues than the older one and which will probable reason particularly some disagreements. yet whilst they have been comparable in age then their perspectives could be comparable and that they possibly could be greater chuffed. the final age distinction between spouses is 3-7 ish years. ( i think of) in the top its no longer the age distinction its how they get alongside mutually.
2016-12-16 12:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by janzen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakups take a few minutes.
Divorces take several months-sometimes years- and several thousand dollars.
Divorces happen when you've been married, which makes them more emotionally painful, because you have promised a lifelong commitment to each other.
If I could start it all over again- I would still have been with my ex for a while- he gave me a beautiful daughter. But I would still have wound up with my husband.
2007-11-18 12:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a legality issue that must be dealt with in a divorce
2007-11-18 12:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alimony.
2007-11-18 12:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by cooter726 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference is the emotional and financial toll.
As for question #2, No.
2007-11-18 12:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WELL LYNN. HMM WELL IT MIGHT BE ARGUING. ME AND MY OLD GF WE WERE NEIGHBORS. WE HAD 100 ARGUMENTS. JUST ASKED GOD TO HELP YA.
2007-11-18 12:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋