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I am married and come into contact with many clients in the course of a week. I get flirted with frequently, but sometimes I can't tell if men are actually flirting or just being friendly. My male co-workers claim that men never touch a woman unless they have a sexual interest in them, but I don't believe that is true of all men. Don't some men just hug or touch the arm or back or hand of a woman because they are more touchy or friendly than most? Does it ALWAYS mean there is an underlying sexual desire there? And what about compliments....do men ever just compliment a woman on her appearance without there being a sexual motive?

2007-11-18 12:07:10 · 9 answers · asked by sunlover350 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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I'm a photographer. I mostly do weddings and family portrait work, but sometimes I take photographs for advertising agencies, real estate companies, etc.

I'm the only female photographer in the area, and I think it is one of the reasons I get the most business. Men like to flirt, and if my looks are any testament to the truth, they don't care what you look like.

Cheers!

2007-11-18 12:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't think that it is right for a client or a co worker to flirt, hug, touch the arm, back or hand of any woman at all. Even if they are too touchy or friendly it is not right and you have to set the boudries. You have to limit and tell them that you want them to respect you and that even though they do not even it in a sexual way that there are limits. It doesn't matter if they are or aren't wanting any sexual desire. You have to let them know that you do not want to be that way in your job and that you want respect.

2016-04-04 21:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sexual Harassment at the workplace is a huge issue these days. Employers take it very seriously and if they don't , they should.
Try to just let these men know that they can just say hello without all the other stuff. Be firm about it and hopefully they will get the hint. If not, let your boss know.

2007-11-18 12:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by purplewaterhorse 3 · 0 1

i compliment women at work and do my wife without any sexual desires just think they are nice, though this is rare cause us men have learned that some women are out of their minds and if you say something nice they just might interpritate as fi you are after them and report you.

2007-11-18 12:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 0 0

Men are always interested in sex with an attractive woman, whether they touch you or not.

2007-11-18 12:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are assuming that men think the same way women do. The fact is, we are different creatures.

I agree with you coworkers.

Good luck.

2007-11-18 12:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0 1

Its not always about sex, but then it totaly depends on the man, infact me when i am sexualy atracted to a woman (which you woman are soo freakin hot....lol) i am usualy afraid to touch that woman, but maybe thats just me. oh! and i like your hair color...

2007-11-18 12:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by solidsnake277 2 · 0 1

If you can't figure it out that means you aren't too bright.

2007-11-18 14:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No.... sorry... no man should touch you... Unless it is a handshake.

2007-11-18 12:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by shay231214 2 · 0 1

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