OK, a guy asks you if you want a cup of coffee.
Now obviously, you shouldn't say yes if you are dating someone. But what else would disqualify a guy from a coffee date?
His height? Being unathletic? Having a zit? Not having the best car or job?
I think that if you are both single, the worst thing that can happen is you get a free cup of coffee and a possible friend. So why won't anyone have coffee with me?
2007-11-18 12:02:39 · 10 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Usually I'd definitely say yes to a coffee date. I mean, even if we have no chemistry, how bad can it get over one cup of coffee? However if a guy is too suave, thinks he is a player and gives me the feeling he is putting a notch on the bedpost just b/c I accepted coffee, ugh! I also wouldn't say yes if I felt intimidated by him. I have a guy friend who has a tendency to back girls into a corner. He doesn't realize how big he is and when he romantically puts his hands on either side of a girl, it's really just making her feel she can't escape. If the guy was insisting on knowing too much info or had to pick me up though, I'd run.
But even if a guy was not my normal type, 30 minutes of my life for a cup of coffee could decide to change my type. I'd go even if he was shorter than me, had a zit, or too athletic. I don't care anyway about cars or jobs--though I do care about ambition and desire to move up in the job market.
Like you said, it's a public place and as long as you meet there, the worst that can happen is a free cup of coffee.
2007-11-18 12:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, I'm sure that SOME nice girl out there would love to have coffee with you!
But if a guy asks a girl out for coffee and she's just not interested in him, she'll say No. "Having coffee", to a female, is a prelude to an actual date.
2007-11-18 12:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes if a girl knows she would never be interested in a romantic relationship with a guy, she will say no because she doesn't want to give him any false hope and have him hounding her and calling for another coffee date or something more.
2007-11-18 12:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be your approach or your attitude? Once when I was with a friend a guy basically just sat down with us uninvited because he thought we needed the company. Personally, if I don't like a guy's eyes, I would politely turn him down. Eye color doesn't matter, but what I see in them does.
2007-11-18 12:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advantageous... going out for espresso would be a shorter dedication of time which might become reliable if the guy replaced into uninteresting. If it is going properly over espresso, you could constantly enlarge the date to lunch/dinner.
2016-10-01 02:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably nothing too extreme.
He can't be obese, chubby is okay and he basically has to have teeth.
I'd love it if a guy asked me to coffee, dates are too cliche for me.
2007-11-18 12:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an awkward guy? If a woman feels like it is going to be like pulling teeth to talk to someone, then they are not going to expose themselves to just that situation!
2007-11-18 12:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coffee would be fine.....I'll take regular, with cream and sugar please!!
Thanks.
2007-11-18 12:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I said no,, that would mean I'm simply not intersted
2007-11-18 12:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"She's just not that into you!"
2007-11-18 12:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by Karebear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋