For instance, maybe you didn't like someone because they were snobby or made fun of you in highschool. Maybe you all were friends, but you or that person did something to break-up the friendship.
I graduated in 1995 and I noticed that there are still people who won't speak when they see me because of something that happened way back in highschool. I don't understand it. Do people ever grow up? I live in another state now so it really doesn't matter.
2007-11-18 11:09:08 · 31 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
To be honest, I really don't know what it could have been. There were only a select few people who thought I was stuck-up but I wasn't. I have always just kept to myself and those who I know. I am friendly and will talk to anybody, but I have to feel comfortable around you before I can really hold a indepth conversation.
2007-11-18 11:10:53 · update #1
I graduated in 1963 and the gal that stole my boyfriend hasn't spoken to me in that long! lol Silly. I was the wounded party!
2007-11-18 11:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I graduated in 1987, I am still close with my best friend who graduated with me. I don't hold a grudge against anyone from high school, but I do agree that some people never grow up, I have a 20 year reunion next week that I am not going to, I just have no desire to be with a bunch of people that I hated being with 20 years ago.
2007-11-18 11:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by stinky4sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I graduated in 2003. Our 5 year reunion is next year and I don't know if I'll go. Not because of grudges or anything...I didn't really connect with a lot of people in high school....it was a 'don't bother me and i won't bother you' kind of deal. And the few people i was friends with I still am. I just don't see the point in going really....but i've still got another year to think on it :D
and no some people never grow up....there's always that one in the group...all you can do is just...let it go.
2007-11-18 11:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ruthie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I graduated in 2001 and I only speak to one person from High School. Everyone else just faded away. And yes, I still hold a grudge against the girls who made my junior year miserable. Our group of friends got into a fight and paired off, and I was odd man out. I spent my 17th birthday sitting home in my room watching TV. It was so stupid and petty but for some reason I still carry baggage about it.
I'm working on it with my therapist, lol.
2007-11-18 11:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I graduated in 1999. There was this one girl that I know she wanted something with my first love (high school love) and she tried everything she could, she even went to see him first at his graduation ceremony, the first congratulations kiss. Ughhh, I'm married now to a wonderful man and have two kids , but sometimes just by thinking about her I still think I really do hold a grudge against her. LOL.
2007-11-18 11:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by easter_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I graduated four years ago, and to be honest don't let it bother you that some people just can't see that the secret of life is to live everyday to the fullest and that means letting go of things and move on. If you feel like your a better person and you have left those things behind then good on you and bad on them. Don't worry, friends will come and go. Hold on to the good ones :)
2007-11-18 11:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by loveandhate22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way back in 1989....and I still think a bunch of those people were jerks. They made fun of me from the time I was in 2nd grade until I graduated top one degree or another. I think about going to reunions to show them how wrong they all were, but I do not live in the area anymore, so it would be a waste of time to give them the joy of seeing me again. It is their loss, (yes I am still a bit bitter)
2007-11-18 11:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I graduated this year in June.
My biggest grudge is.....
the yearbook staff MESSING UP BIG TIME, because me and a few other seniors were NOT in the Senior yearbook.
And all I got was the yearbook for free. It's pretty lame and I'm still pissed off thinking about it! I had to draw a little cartoon picture of me when I signed everyone's yearbook... :[
2007-11-18 11:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I graduated in 2003 and I don't hold grudges I just never liked the people who made my life miserable while in high school.
2007-11-18 11:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there! I graduated in 1995!
I got my B.A. in 1999. I got my M.B.A. in 2004 (took two years off between degrees and then went part-time for my grad degree.)
I live in another state and have not seen anyone from high school since college and barely remember any of them.
2007-11-18 11:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2001. i didn't really have any problems with anyone..i was like the first 'goth' chic in my school-before it was a fad and "cool"...i din't consider my self this goth label ppl put on it. i just made a lot of my clothes and i liked how i looked i don't care about anyones opinion of my apperaance, it made me happy right...but i was on friendly terms with nearly eryoeone and i think i had it pretty good..there are a couple ppl that i would just look at in disgust if i ever seen them again, just because they're horrible ppl and doubt they've changed..but no, no grudges here really..
2007-11-18 11:14:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋