Okay, so I've been friends with this girl for a long time, and I'm seriously getting kind of creeped out by her. I'm starting to think that she has a crush on me, which is not good because I'm NOT interested in having that type of relationship with her AT ALL. She likes to touch me a lot, like ALL of the time she wants to hug me, even when I don't want it. It happens at random times, she'll say, "Katia, you need a hug, let me hug you" at first I thought it was sweet but now it's getting weird. She also invited me for a sleepover. I didn't want to go, because I was scared that she'd... do something to me. And she did. We were sleeping in the same bed and she kept coming closer to me and hugging me, which made me feel extremely uncomfortable. I confronted her the next day about it, and she said she had no idea what I was talking about. She looked a bit embarrassed.
So my question is, am I acting uncomfortable for no reason? WHAT should I do? I feel so weird around her.
2007-11-18 10:51:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Btw I'm not looking for advice, I already got that in Singles&Dating. I just want short answers! :)
2007-11-18 10:53:49 · update #1
I wouldn't as I am not afraid of hugs.
For you, just explain you need a larger circle of space about you, as most people do
2007-11-18 11:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You're right! I would feel the same way. Maybe you should sit her down and talk to her. and if that don't work distance yourself from her. But the thing is if you guys were friends for so long, she should know by now that you don't roll like that. If she's you friend she would understand and try to make you feel comfortable from now on.
Good Luck! Hope I Helped....xoxo
2007-11-18 11:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by The Creative One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be uncomfortable, because I dont even like the person. I would avoid her by all means if I am a guy.
2007-11-18 10:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would be "ooked" out! I had a cousin like that. I'm not into that incest is best thing! Ewwww! Sounds like your friend has a big crush on you...tough situation for ya...
2007-11-18 10:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by zen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do that to my friend all the time; and I don't mean it in a sexual way, but she seems to think I want to marry her or something!
But with the bed thing.. I think shes into you. lol
2007-11-18 10:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask other girls if she's weird to them like she is to u and ask her if she has some huge crush on a guy or who she likes
and yeah i'd feel totally weird too
2007-11-18 11:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by sokr_luvr_04 :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i would feel uncomfortable too,
tell her you are 100% NOT curious !!!! if you know what i mean- maybe she'lll get the hint.
2007-11-18 11:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by savory sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I don't think I would be uncomfortable... nope, pretty sure, at least until that guy from Dateline barged in.
2007-11-18 11:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by Rick H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are uncomfortable with the hugging...its just the way you are....
2007-11-18 10:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah, I'd feel creeped out. Violated, even. Confront her about it.
2007-11-18 10:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by fluorescent adolescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋