2007-11-18 10:11:24 · 15 answers · asked by Sidereality 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ideally yes, the spouse comes first and your combined priorities are the children (if you have any.) Too often husbands get ignored in favor of the kids, and this is not a healthy balance.
2007-11-18 10:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If both of you put the needs of the children first then your spouse should have first place because you are a team raising your kids and when it comes to raising the kids you BETTER be on the same page or the kids will be playing you against one another.
Also when you allow your children to be your everything to the point of where your spouse is shut out, they start seeking companionship elsewhere.Or sometimes it finds them in their loneliest hours.
2007-11-18 10:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i trust they must be. each and every significant faith interior the international says the order is God, better 1/2, little ones, kin, acquaintances. in case you at the prompt are not non secular then you extremely can replace God with Ethics. putting God or Ethics first is the way you position your self first with out being egocentric, grasping, or otherwise evil. almost no women individuals interior the western international stay like this anymore. They very virtually continually position the youngsters first and are keen on a putting forward "they're going to continually be my little ones, yet husbands might want to come & flow." it really is between the universal motives that no guy interior the western international ought to ever marry and why the marriage price is at an rock bottom.
2016-10-24 11:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a marriage your spouse should be the only man or woman in your life.Of course the children should be an equal concern from both parents.They are our future.And should be protected from harm and loved.
2007-11-18 10:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is the most important person to me. My boys, and my grandson come in a very close second.
2007-11-18 10:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie Mae 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First spouse then child.
2007-11-18 10:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Paramedic 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well in my marriage it goes like this for both parties God, each other and then the children. I mean these are our standards and we love it.
2007-11-18 10:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by b n real 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He should be the most important person for you after God!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-18 10:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by my angel is 2 1/2 now:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't have any kids, so my husband was the most
important person in my life. When he died, I wished it was me who died and not him.
2007-11-18 10:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by doodlebug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2007-11-18 10:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by belle k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋