I am trying to get a divorce. I am going through legal aid. Neother my Ex or My self have legal custody of my children. He has made threats to take my kids and disapear with them. Legal Aid told me to have no contact with him until I have custody and then only if I felt safe. (he can be violent) My children have some problems due to abuse and viewing his abuse but since not being around them they are doing better. He has emailed me saying that he will pay for the divorce but he wants unsupervised visitation. I am pregnant by my fiance. (I've been seperated for 2 years) Somehow the EX found out and is trying to use it against me to get what he wants in the divorce.
I don't know if I should just stall the divorce until after I have the baby(not what I want) and then he has no cards. Just stick to Legal aid and file and hope they don't find out or give in to the crazy so and so and keep my kids counsilers on the alert.
In advance thank you all for your help.
2007-11-18 09:50:58 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have to reply to on thing. I am educated, an RN. My beiing pregnant was not a poor decision it was a great gift to my fiance and I as we did not think he could have children.
Don't assume that a person is ignorant because their life is troubled. Everyone has problems at times. You are no better, don't think that you are!
2007-11-18 10:11:37 · update #1
I think you should go ahead with the divorce no matter what. You always want to close a chapter in your life before you open another one. Also, you can go on yahoo answers politics & government and then law & ethics and there is alot of lawyers on that site that gives free advice on what to do. I really hope this helps you and try not to stress so much it's not so good for the little one you are caring. Good luck!
2007-11-18 10:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by b n real 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 08:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow what legal aid says. You need to let them know of your situation with having another baby. He can't hold it against you if you have been separated for that long. You only have to prove that you are separated and you should be fine. I would let everyone that has contact with your children know what is going on. You need to contact their schools and file a no pick up order with them. If he tries to pick them up he can't and they will call you. You also should file a VPO against him until the divorce is final.
2007-11-18 09:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stick to the legal aid for the old nut job is likely to kill them and you if he can.Then get married before your baby is born.
2007-11-18 09:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You being pregnant only shows thatyou make poor dicisions not that you are a bad mother so it has no legal standing and he doesn't decide about visitation the court does-stick with the legal aid and get yourself an education-for your kids sake
2007-11-18 10:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋