What do you do when you feel like your spouse does not want to be with you anymore?

Answer 1

u need to communicate with her find out what is wrong and how u can make it right, even if u think u have done all u can do. if she doesn't want to be with u anymore u will have to accept it, and honor her wishes. but most of the time its something in the past that she is still hurting over, if u can just get her to open up and tell u. approach her in a non threatening way, where she will feel safe talking.

Answer 2

You know sometimes you have to love that person enough to sit them down and ask what can you do to make them happy. You never know what the other person may be going through. Have a heart to heart with the Mrs. or Mr. and let them know how you truly feel and how much you truly do care about there every thought and feelings. Give that person time to respond and be open about what ever comes next. In this matter be slow to speak and quick to listen. Good luck!

Answer 3

Take a deep breath, and realize that you will survive this too!!! Start saving quick $$$, because you've made it sound as you won't be there much longer!! Get ready for the worst, pray for the Best!!Then &only then talk to her!! She may have plans of her own in action, why move if you don't have to!! You have to close your marriage as if you were closing a bad business!! Cut your losses, don't damage the mecahdice, and move on to WHERE YOU REALLY WNAT TO BE!!!! This time make it ALL ABOUT YOU!!!! GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

Difficult but...life will go on and you will survive. Try to take the time to grow and to see if this is a period when you can grow and rediscover yourself. Perhaps there were problems that you contributed to in the relationship - perhaps you can change. But perhaps the problems were with your spouse. EIther way...you will survive. Good luck.

Answer 5

If you are a mature adult, then you remember two things:

1. That your "feelings" are not always an accurate measure of how things really are

and

2. That if you have a spouse you should ASK them.

Answer 6

dont assume anything, ask, then fit the puzzle together. if shes dead set on divorce then talking may not stop her. take a partial vacation apart, then meet and take a partial vacation together, get away from your daily life, then come back and change something in your lives like where you live, what u do. often times a change in you every day lifestyle will make a big difference.

Answer 7

beleve it or not there's no knot that you can undo.you might not have the skills to express your feelings very well so its hard to fix past hurts.a good word of advise is good but its beter to teach someone how to fish for them self.theres skills that we dint lern as a child ther alot of things out ther that you would have never thout of to better your self onther than religion.so good luck man

Answer 8

Talk it out and if that doesn't work, move on to someone else who will love and want you, as much as you love and want that person. Good Luck!

Answer 9

that's one heart-breaking question...did she tell you she no longer to be with you....are you always fighting or do you feel that the relationship gets boring?...

ask her, if how she is...ask her if there's something bothering her...reassure her you love her...ask her if she still loves you...try to reach out and give her more attention...maybe that's all she needs

it would be sad if you separate and if you've got kids...the kids would be much affected...try all means of saving the marriage...fight for your marriage as long as she still tels you she loves you...and tell her you'd fight hard for your marriage...that way she knows you love her much!!!

Answer 10

verify... and then either leave or see if spouse will consider marriage counseling.