boys are always wanting to take girls virginities but it doesnt hurt for them, but its so painful for us. they are all excited like oh im bout to do this, and the girls are like oh sh*t this is going to hurt. u know! they need to know how we feel and whats going through our minds when they are about to do it.:))))
2007-11-18 03:59:19 · 5 answers · asked by nickii_love 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well it doesn't have to hurt if you are old enough to have lost your hymen with tampons and be old enough to have enough room down there.
It also helps to have a guy who knows about forplay and will take the time to arouse you and go slow and gentle.
Usually this comes with age. This might be a reason so many people suggest you wait until you are older and have a guy who likes you.
Dont get me wrong. Even 'good boys' want to get into your pants, but the ones that care about you will maintain eye contact, go slow and make sure you enjoy their attentions.
2007-11-18 11:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-24 10:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure way but I didn't have any pain when i lost it.. so i guess it doesn't really hurt all girls. OH! I sort of know it's partlly because UR well-- how do I put it-- let's see-- getting stretched out, is the only way i can put it.
2007-11-18 09:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by truble 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why do we have to deal with a monthly period that can bring on mood swings, headaches, cramps,etc? Why do we have to deal with the pain of child birth and guys don't? Because they're lucky, that's why! lol
2007-11-18 09:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
It's God's curse on babes. It's totally better, in every imaginable way, to be a guy. :)
2007-11-18 10:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋