We have 1 child and one on the way its been a constant emotional rollercoaster. We act as if we are room mates he had not been intimate for so long now I feel I turned into this non sexual being. I lost who I was. Im worried now everywhere I turn I feel he is secretly searching because he had cheated before. Im lost it takes everything to smile arround him. He has a female friend I have never met, or talked to. This friend is his ex's best friend he still talks to her when I am not arround, he emails her and sends pics of himself and our son to her none of us and our family we have started. What is happening? All of his encounters are in secret and I feel our intamate moments that happen every 2 months is not enough for a young man its sad but true. What is going on and is my relationship over.
2007-11-18 02:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Funny one might think that "I" trapped him sex is a 2 person ride not only one can travel alone and get pregnant. HELLO men trap women too sometimes men are so selfish the first thing they do is run and hide sorry I dont need to trap anyone. I can do bad all by my self regardless or how I want to be away from him he wont leave so if this anwsers your assumption there is more to the story. I was faithful and loved him unconditionally and I got burned sorry for being that mere percent that actually was honest and true to my man. Women are not all scandelous and malicious.
2007-11-20 10:29:16 · update #1
This sounds familiar, and I'm guessing there is more to this story. First of all, have you ever denied him sex? Did you both agree on having a child? Have you always been honest with him? Did you trap him?
This sounds like a reaction to you, just not something all of a sudden.
Sometimes, women are so caught up with what they want that they do anything to get it, even if it's at the other persons expense. Sounds like you've betrayed his trust in one way or another, you might not be able to get that back.
2007-11-18 10:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is over.
He has crossed boundaries if he is sending pics of you and your kids to some other woman without your consent, especially if he does it in secret.
He cut off intimacy, he doesn't communicate, what else is there?
You knew when you wrote this question that it was over and were looking for confirmation and now you have it. You know inside that you aren't happy and I am willing to bet that you don't want to live this way your whole life.
Do what's best for you and your child.
2007-11-18 10:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have another child with him if you knew he has cheated on you before? Men and women who cheat have a very hard time staying faithful to their partner. Some men are not attracted to their partners when they are pregnant. It is a sad but true fact. Most men are unfaithful when their partners become pregnant. He knows he is doing something wrong or he wouldn't be doing it behind your back.
2007-11-18 10:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you ever wonder if he was getting it somewhere else?denial si a bad thing.
2007-11-18 11:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Fran M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, your relationship is over. He is scum. You and your chld are BETTER than that. Please end it him, for all of your sakes.
2007-11-18 10:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋