After you both know you love eachother, doesn't the tension just dwindle down and the sex become boring and predictable?
2007-11-18 02:16:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think the world has more marriages than what is supposed to have, only 10% of the people should get married and are the ones who find real love and the ones who wont get bored. The others are just married to avoid their boredom of their life and unhappines which is something they can't solve by getting married, hence, it gets boring since they are boring people by defaulta and don't know how to address or solve their problems.
Considering 50% gets divorce, which part of the 50% married is happy? or is not planning on getting divorce or have second thoughts?.
It gets boring but is not a cause of marriage, is because the people who got married are boring people, unmotivated about life, and got married just running away from solitude or feel isolated.
So the answer to your question if it gets boring or not (final answer), the answer is No, it doesn't get boring, marriage has nothing to do, and doesn't influence boredom. But most people get bored but that's because they are boring people.
2007-11-18 03:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not feel that marriage gets boring.. There always needs to be that COMMUNICATION.. That is one of the biggest things besides Trust.. If you can not communicate to each other your needs and wats both sexually and nonsexually then I feel that your marriage will dwindle and that can lead to cheating. But when you can openly communicate it builds a strong bond and lets you be yourself without worring..
2007-11-18 10:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Gail C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! When 2 people take each other for granted is when boredom sets in. Always treat the person you love with respect and kindness. A kiss a day keeps the lawyers at bay
2007-11-18 10:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not work to make your marriage work, it will get boring like everything in life one gets fed up with the same routine,do different things together go places, meet other people put some effort into it.Otherwise you will be on a slippery slope to nowhere.
Don`t be shy,Give it a try.
2007-11-18 10:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by jumping jack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-11-18 18:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by belle k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, YES. And for that matter, what doesn't ? Everything in life gets BORING once the routine sets in, when things are taken for granted . To prevent BOREDOM from setting in too fast, always create surprises ...from simple daily meals, to initimate, things, dressings, ideas etc.. Make sure you have surprises up your sleeves..that way, it will last longer..
Anyone who thinks otherwise, is just bluffing themselves !
2007-11-18 10:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by tigerkayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if ur unpredictable...if u love them u will do things to keep the spark...like once in while when u both have nothing to do go ot a movie...or go do something fun...something u know the other one will like and take turns...and for the sex life if it gets to bording in the bedroom go do it somewhere else in the house..its ur house its not like someone can walk in on u right?
2007-11-18 10:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does if neither party makes any effort to keep it from becoming boring, then yes.
2007-11-19 20:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by A.J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that it gets boring, its that you get comfortable with one another. I guess its like you quit trying to entice the other person because you are in a position to be yourself. If you think its boring, try to spice it up.
2007-11-18 10:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both people don't continue to work together to make it exciting and grow together, then yes it can get boring.
2007-11-18 10:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋