For those people who always takes their ex back after divorcing? If they have a better life after divorcing, will they still take their ex back? Or, because they are unable to find new love and settle their life for less. How many of you really forgive your ex when you said so, and not blame on them forever? And, does your relationship work after you take your ex back?
2007-11-18 01:51:10 · 11 answers · asked by Kim J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will never forgive my ex. I might forgive her for her millions of lies . I will forgive her for physically attacking me. However I will never ever forgive her for kidnapping my son and moving out of state then do everything in her power to try and prevent me from having a life with my son.
2007-11-18 01:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by andrew w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always forgive but down deep can you forget. When you get mad you will always remember the things that caused the divorce. If the marriage didn't work before
its not going to work now. People are who they are and no matter how much you want them to be different they cant do it.
You can become friends but that's all. Being friends is great, but there are going to be things that you don't like and then all the things that happen between you will come back to you mind.Stay Friends and go on with your life. My ex and I are best of Friends now, but I wouldn't even considering marring him again. Because down deep we are not meant to be together, I would probably beat the s--t out of him now, because we are 2 different types of people. He has his own priority's in life and my and his are not the same.
2007-11-18 02:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kim I never took my ex back, but, if I had to do it all over again I would have accepted her request to make another try at it. I thought that she had done so poorly at the divorce that she wanted to start over and fix "those" mistakes instead of the mistakes she made in her thinking that made her file in the first place. I mean, I never changed. I am and was the same person. So what changes were made that would send this relationship back on the right track. In my mind, I've made the right choice, in my heart, I may have screwed up the chances that my children will turn out unscathed.
2007-11-18 02:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think no one ever really does, because if you put up with a lot of crap from them you sure won't forget it, if it didn't work out the first time why would you think it will the second time ? think about it !! Well I have always tried to have the attitude that I try not to make the same mistake twice, so if I was divorced from someone once that tells me they were problems and I didn't want the same problems back,if it didn't work out the first time I don't think it will the second time, walk away, to many other people out there to go for that again,
2007-11-18 02:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Eddie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgive, because he wasn't physically or mentally abusive, we just went on different paths in life and right now it's not working. It's nothing personal, the love or feelings aren't gone, but I understand that it is both of our own doing and it doesn't need to be negative. We are still friends.
2007-11-18 02:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never gone back to an ex, I don't like drama and I am not a glutten for punishment. I truly forgive him and he forgives me. We have a child together and he is a wonderful father...he just stank at being married to me and I stank at being married to him...I can't stay mad at that. Nothing to hold against him, I am thankful that he is such a good father....and that is all.
2007-11-18 02:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kaboom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
taking an ex back is not a good idea...u can forgive but u dont have to take em back
2007-11-18 01:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Sony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i forgave mine the first time, but i couldnt forget what he had done. He just turned around and did it again and again. of course he faithful to his live in girlfriend. most often they dont work but there is always an exception to the rule.the hardest part is that you cant forget the hurt and pain of cheating, or how they treat you while they are doing it. most of the time they try to make you think its your fault that they cheat.
2007-11-18 03:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Fran M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not take my deadbeat @ss ex back if he were the last BOY on this planet. The only contact I want with him is my foot on his nuts!
2007-11-18 01:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by whatshername 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really do forgive her!!! But I always laugh when she (new#7) is with her, he looks like me,acts like me, and she kicks his butt all the time!!! What a great guy!! I see them and just start grinning, thanking god it's not me anyomre!!
2007-11-18 11:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋