My friend is separated from her spouse for the past 10 yrs. A 498a case has been filed and judgemnt awaited. but my friend says that she wont apply for a divorce even after the judgemnt is given . Is it ok if the relationship continues legally? they have no issues. will the relationship create problems later on? she thinks she may rejoin her spouse anytime if the relationship continues ,can it happen?
2007-11-18 01:03:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After so long (don't know the time exactly) they will be classed as legally separated anyway.
If they go on to other relationships and want to marry, then maybe they need to make it official.
Why would they want to rejoin her spouse? Surely they are seperated for a reason and that reason won't have gone away?
2007-11-18 01:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by MISS B.ITCH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is totally absurd to have a relationship after separation. Do not hang in the air... Just have a full relation ship or nothing. Why the hell is the need to separate if they still feel about each other from some corner of their heart. Any relationship or love do not stand legally, it must be from heart and nothing in between...
2007-11-18 01:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what a 498.a is but, it sounds like they are forcing divorce due to the separation being for so long. She sould just get a divorce and move on with her life... why would she stay "married" if she has been separated for 10 years. I don't think the marriage is going to last.
2007-11-18 01:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by More or less 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is up to the couple involved, sometimes taking the seperation route is easier than going the divorce route, a lot of couples prefer to be seperated, because the thought of a divorce is just way to final for them.
So, if your friends wants to be seperated, and she is ok for that, then support her on that, if she feels that she might get back together with her husband, than support that also.
It is her decision, just be her friend.
Sometimes seperations, just give the couple space and time to work things out, seperations do not always lead to the big "D".
2007-11-18 01:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should not be. After 8 years you break up for abandonment. BTW... Divorce and visitations are 2 separate subject concerns in courtroom, merely so which you recognize. you may get one, without the different even bobbing up.
2016-11-12 00:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by apley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will create any miracles between husband and wife ,provided both should have inclinations towards them with each other for joint life. If your friend does not have such idea, where to go for re-union?
2007-11-18 01:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by BA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possiable I guess , but she is putting her life on hold for a what if. She is giving him control over her. I think she needs to open her eyes when a person trys to tell you something you need to listen.....He doesn't want her......If she breaks every type of communication off for a while then he will show his true colors....test him!
2007-11-18 01:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by rjm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,,,,your friend is confuse with her self !!!!!why separation and any how she did it for reason ,than change of mind no divorce,,why?let men go free so he able to enjoy his own way,,,why she wants him suffer burden of marriage?women like this men hate women,,,,,did she ask him how he feel about her choice about no divorce but no wife either,,,,,
2007-11-19 09:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Smita P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my now husband did this with his ex wife. they were seperated for 8 yrs following a 1 yr marriage. while i didnt understand this myself i asked and his answer was she went her way and i went mine and we never had any reason to get divorced
2007-11-18 01:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by happy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for all parties to go their seperate ways!! either finalize, or work the differences. move on to a better relation ship or marriage .
2007-11-18 01:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋