I guess i'm bi,and love him,and i'm not sure whether he loves me or not.I just can't convey what i feel to him.Sometimes he is like to take care of me,sometimes not.
I don't wanna be so unsure and sufferin',i tried to forget him,but i meet up him almost everyday,and i can't forget.
I really wanna get outta this,so what should i do?
2007-11-18 00:00:25 · 14 answers · asked by Cartman 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your question already provides your own answer. You say you dont want to live being so unsure and you don't want to live suffering. Then you either speak up and talk to define or walk away. No matter how hard it is. We all deserve a companion who has our best interest at heart and will put us first. Who will want to spend time with us and do things with us. You also start off by saying " I guess I am bi" so it sounds like to me you have a lot of soul searching to do to figure out exactly who you are and what you need out of life and what you need out of a companion. The good news is is that you are young enough to learn that now and not waste time on those who constanstly hurt you or let you down. You are young enough to take the time to find yourself and figure it all out. So my advice to you is take you time, do some serious soul searching away from t his person and decide how it is you want to be treated and then remember.... WE DICTATE how others treat us in relationships and if we allow others to walk all over us then that is how its going to be. But if we command respect and honesty that is what we will get. Good luck and take your time. Life isn't a race. Its a learning experience.
2007-11-18 00:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by billies35 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your probably just a better friend. Doe's he help you out a lot? doe's he do things for you? That could be the reason why you like him so much. That doesn't have to do with being bi
2007-11-18 08:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either speak up, or put up. If neither of those options are palateable, walk away. Simple as that, regardless of how it feels.
Don't base your life on something some Jackass on Yahoo answers says... including me.
2007-11-18 09:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by delwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like most relationships regardless of the sexes
2007-11-18 08:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by chatticathi52 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to solve a problem like this is to f;ck him and if it works, it works, if not, find another fellow, but if you don't try it with this guy, you'll always wonder, WHAT IF
2007-11-18 09:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by sam_the_man77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not love it's sex and lust, just like all homosexual behavior and so-called relationships.
Don't do this to yourself. Get a girlfriend.
2007-11-18 08:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your heart.
2007-11-18 08:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by VickiGirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
talk to your counselor
to sort out your feelings
you could just be going through a phase
or "think" that you like "him"
2007-11-18 08:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can't say coz you have to figure it out yourself!
2007-11-18 08:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still young dont guess to be a bi , instead live loving a girl , if you are uncertain please do not give in to a a boy
2007-11-18 08:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by david j 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋