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well im jus turned 17 n well ive been wit my b/f for a while know and well he asked me if i wanted to have his kids n i said yes but im not so sure if thats a good idea or not...i love him very much but am i 2 young 2 have a kid???

2007-11-17 19:18:43 · 9 answers · asked by m.dopegurl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Trying to Conceive

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I think it's important to make sure that you are not only emotionally but financially ready to have a baby. Are you going to be able to pay for food, diapers, doctor visits, clothes, ect? Are you ready to give up having all your time to yourself to do whatever you want? Because once you have a baby they are what is supposed to come first. I would say that because of how young you are you should wait but I can't make you decision for you.

2007-11-17 19:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The problem here is there are a lot of factors to take into consideration when saying are you too young. If you think you are then I would say to hold off but if you feel ready and are in a position to give a child a loving and stable home and the type of life you wish then there isnt a problem. You also have to take in that you have a lot of living to do and does a child fit into your plans at this point in time?

2007-11-17 19:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0 0

No you should wait a few years you are still young and have so much life to live before being tied down with kids. Live your life a little otherwise you will regret it.

2007-11-17 21:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by banditqueen1980 3 · 0 0

If you can't even spell pregnant, you certainly are too young to have a baby. Much too young. Wait till you have finished school and get more of an education. And wait till you are married.

2007-11-17 21:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0 0

o0oh..mama...please dont..its HARD WORK..i understand that u guys might love each other SO MUCH..but i just had a newborn..and im 21..my life is COMPLETELY based on my son. i had a baby at 17 but i lost it unfortunately..but im having alot of sleepless nights..and crying is a daily routine they go thru ...u WILL get frustrated...but i love my little baby to death..finish school...earn enough money to raise a kid.. dont do it now love.. ur man will understand..and besides your parents will be soo disappointed if u have one now.. please wait hunny.

2007-11-17 19:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by Justin's Mommy 3 · 1 0

No you should not try to get pregnant. You are not even of legal age, why would you want to have a child?

2007-11-17 19:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by dfnucshnajsif 2 · 1 0

hey before you know it you'll be 25 and kicking your head off the wall.. missing out on going out, movies, shopping.... with your boyfriend, friends... and so on...
you'll have a child to tag along with you...
you're not even married.... not even 18???
why are you having sex??
ok thats your decision... but please... do not have a child yet...
you're still a child yourself.

2007-11-17 19:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you cant spell the word, then no....dont get pregnant. First work on your langauge skills

2007-11-17 21:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the answer to ur question is in ur qestion itself my dear................................
yes u r absolutely right...............u r too young to have a kid..........

2007-11-17 19:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by simran s 1 · 0 0

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