WHAT SHOULD MY FREIND DO IF ONE OF HER PARENTS ARE DIEING HOW SHOULD SHE ACT IN SCHOOL EVERYBODYS GANNA KNOW ABOUT IT HELP IM WORRIED ABOUT HER AND SHES FALLING APART
2007-11-17 16:52:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
She should act however she wants to act. If she wants to be upset, she can be upset. She shouldn't act a certain way to please others. She's going through something emotional. Instead of trying to control her emotions, be a true friend and stick by her, no matter how she acts.
2007-11-17 16:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I uderstand you friends pain, i ahd a parent die when i was nine. I'd advise her just ot act herself. And maybe skip school for a day or two to get herself together. And theres nothing really wrong, if ppl know. But if things get tot the point where everyone getts nosy. She should just walk away to seclude herself for a moment or two. And be there for her, right now she needs a good freind more then ever.
Hoped i help
2007-11-18 00:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should act how she feels. If people get nosy and ask her questions she doesn't want to answer than she needs to tell them she doesn't want to talk about it. Let her focus as much of her time and energy as she can to spending some quality time with her parent that is dying. It is a frightening time for her and she has no control over what will happen, and probably wants to feel normal and not think about her sadness all the time. Be there for her to talk or just go out and goof around if she needs to!
2007-11-18 01:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard situation for her, but there is no certain way she "should be acting"
She can act however she feels she needs to in order to cope with what is going on.
If she needs to see a counselor, than she should.
Just be a good friend and let her sort things out on her own. Give her a big hug, and let her know that you are always there if she needs you. If other kids say inappropriate things, stick up for her.
2007-11-18 01:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there is not much anyone can do. But as a friend you can be there when she needs a shoulder to lean on or when she needs someone to talk to. Maybe you should talk to her about stuff other than her parent like make up some jokes get her to laugh. She probably really loves her parents so just be there for her she needs it.! Hope I helped.
2007-11-18 01:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by lostinlove1919 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. My friend's dad passed of a heart attack 3 days after Christmas last year. we were only in 7th grade. the Man who passed was only 41. honestly she needs some time off of school to get her head straight and sort things out. Right now youre being a great friend for being concerned about her but the best thing you can do right now is be there for her when she asks..other then that she needs to deal with this with her family. she needs time to cope. school shouldnt be a priority of her's right now.
2007-11-18 01:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i lost my dad a while back and my pastor at our church really helped, cause i was really angry at god for letting it happen and really needed some answers for things like that. it helped me not to fall apart just knowing there were people there who cared about me and it really helped talking to someone older who had been through stuff like that cause they understood what i was going through. hope you can help her find an older person she can talk to. we will be praying for her and her family.
2007-11-20 18:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk how she should act. sometimes when your family get spulled apart you have diffrent emitons you might expect her to be sad/depressed but she might be angry. or cranky. she could have mood-swings etc. let her know that you'll be by her side and that if she evr needs you that she can call you or something. and if she needs someone to take her feelings out on, let her do it to you. and just be there for her
2007-11-18 01:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by a[little]blondegoesalongway♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a tough place to be in, i lost my mom when i was 14 and all i wanted was to be treated normally, i didn't want peoples sympothy and i didn't want people to feel sorry for me, i just wanted somewhere to go that i went every other day and have things be like they were every other day, thankfully for me i had really understanding friends who were there for me when i needed someone to talk to but didn't pressure me to talk about things
2007-11-18 01:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Brandy P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mayeb you can just be there for her and help her if she wants to talk. if people ask her about it say that she doesnt wanna talk or someting. the best thign you can do is be there for her and be a kind friend. it always helps
2007-11-18 03:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by =]madhu=]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋