Have you ever been contacted by a loved one who has died?

Question

I used to completely believe in the afterlife but now I don't know anymore. My mom (who is dead) never left me any signs or anything to prove that she is still here. So if you have, please share your experiences. Thanks.

Answer 1

Well that does not prove there is not an after life. maybe you mother lived her life so full and happy that she does not have any unfinished here. Maybe she just felt you all would know that and felt no need to contact you.

Belief in the after life is related to religion. yes ghosts are real but not everyone see or hears one. Not everyone who passes on hangs around.

We cannot really prove ghosts are real if we could we would have done it a long time ago. Just take heart in knowing she still loves you and thinks about you. Ghost can communicate through our dreams and if you dream about her that may be the contact you are waiting for. she will always be with you in your heart so take comfort in that.

I know I did not offer much of an answer but just know she lives in your heart.
BB

Answer 2

Yes, my great gran, she came to me a few days after she died, both my parents are dead, l dream of them often, sometimes l see a lot of other people with them, l seem to know them all, strange eh ! I have never seen them but l feel them around me, some times l feel someone stroking my hair, especially when l am driving, l get great comfort from it You likely have signs, but do not recognize them as yet, your mom will still visit you, don't worry, there is an afterlife for sure, l work in a nursing home and have nursed many many folk, l have held their hands when they die, even held some in my arms, believe me there is an afterlife !!!
Have some peace my friend

Answer 3

Honey if you go looking for signs constantly you will overlook the sign that is right in front of you I lost a 16 year old child I kept on looking for sign in everything I touched and done then one day out of the blue I found a note he wrote me when he was only 4 years old I found it in a place where it was impossible to have been and my husband who is a very big non believer in life after death looked At me when I found it and said Austin the same time I thought it so I believe if you wont look so hard your will see something God bless you and I hope you have peace and Good luck through the holidays they are the hardest.

Answer 4

I wouldn't say contacted exactly but my mom died in 2004 and my sister really wanted her house. My mom had no will and I really didn't want the house but didn't want her to let her children have it. I was upset trying to decide whether or not to fight over this house and I was crying in her laundry room the night she died and I ask my mom if I should just let this go and I ask her to give me a sign and all of the sudden the light went out and they came back on. This was the only room it happened in. Maybe it was a coincidence but I believe I had my answer and I walked away from the house and let my sister have it other than fighting over it.

Answer 5

i do not believe that there is an afterlife either i use to think there was becasue of all the trash i use to watch.
about a month ago my grandma died she took care of me most of my life so she was like a second mom to me. i loved he rmore then anything and i noe she loved me so much to. and i still dont see any kind of sign besides dreams if u want to call that a sign but its probably just my concious.
the only way i see dead people of still being here is within family or relatives because they share same blodd and most likely look alike.

sorry about ur loss

Answer 6

Sorry to hear about your loss. nope I havent, and if you dont feel the need to believe in an afterlife, well its your life. Many people have had their faiths tested by a death. But death is a part of every day life and each of us cant escape that fact. I personally would not want my dad dropping in. It was bad enough when I was a kid not having any privacy, but having them as ghosts dropping in? that could prove mighty touchy.
EDIT : where the heck did all the people come from? One second your in virtual reality waste land alone, all of a sudden its like grand central station.

Answer 7

Several years ago I had an unusual experience concerning an uncle, a distant relative who lived over a thousand miles away.

While driving my car I suddenly felt the unmistakable presence of this relative that I hardly even knew. He was more like someone I had heard about than someone I knew. It was very strange; it felt as though I was momentarily lifted right out of my physical body. I seemed to be suspended somehow beyond space and time, bathed in a love so intense It felt like I could have just disappear into it at any moment if It would have let me. It only lasted for a few seconds, but it seemed to last forever at the same time. I realize how crazy this must sound. The experience was so strong that at first I was afraid I was loosing my grip on reality. I finally managed to chalk it up to an over active imagination.

Three days later I got a call from my aunt telling me that this uncle we are talking about had gone into a coma and died the day I had the experience. It felt like ice water had been poured down my back when she told me this. I had lost any real ideas of God or faith and had become somewhat of an atheist. Needless to say this experience caused me to rethink some of the conclusions I had come to.

I feel blessed to now understand that even in our darkest confusion something loves us so much that it went out of its way to assist me and bring me back to a state of absolute certainty about Gods love for us.
During the experience it seemed like there was a vast amount of information that I was somehow allowed access to. One thing that I came away from this experience understanding beyond any shadow of a doubt was that any Idea that God is unhappy with us or would judge or allow us to be punished for any reason is simply impossible.

I can’t explain the love I felt with words. They simply don’t make words big enough or complete enough to do this. The only way I can begin to convey this love to you is to say that there was simply nothing else there. Nothing but love. No hint of judgment, no displeasure of any sort. It is as though God sees us as being as perfect as we were the day we were created. It is only in our confused idea of ourselves that we seem to have changed.

I hope this is of some help to you. Good luck. Love and blessings.

Your brother don

Answer 8

The death of my mother also started my thought processes on the subject. I do not think that we exist after death. We die and become part of the earth again through decay or cremation. In the mean time my father and sister died as well and I still have no reason to believe that an afterlife is a possibility.

Answer 9

First I want to say I'm sorry for your loss. If you ever dream about your Mom, and it's like she is still alive or like it is a memory; or smell her perfume or a scent that reminds you of her that is a way of communicating. Any other signs to prove she is still here wouldn't be a good thing. She has crossed over which is what is supposed to happen. She can still communicate with you it's just not in the way they show it on TV.

Answer 10

Yes I have and it happen several times already, My beautiful Grandmother died 6 years ago and the day she died I was alone in my room and I saw her walking towards me, I tough it was just a illusion but then I received the phone call telling me that she die,many times after that incident If for any reason I start to think about her something happen in the room either the blinds on the window move or i smell her perfume all aver the room,I know she still with me and I love it.