I'm a closeted Transvestite that's nervous about all of this, but yet I believe that we should all be our natural self and not to worry about what other people think of you. I've been so tied up in being so concerned about what people have always thought of me.
2007-11-17 16:02:34 · 4 answers · asked by chp101675 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
We all are a concerned about what people think,you sound like your just starting to look further into what you have been feeling for some time.My advice is keep reading up on Transgender issues and if you can please try not use the the term Transvestite most of Transgender people hate that term it just seems like yuk I hate it.When the time feels rite start coming out and getting out if geniune you will embrace this life eventually,good luck.And as for Italian man man man what saying man three times won't change things once a cross dresser allways crossdresser.
2007-11-17 19:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Leah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not a transvestite, but I used to Cross-dress. Now, I am a recovering cross-dresser now. It it true that you should just be who you are, but Transvestiton is a Abomination to God. The reason is that because God made us man or woman for a reason. He gave us the gift of life. If you continued your cross-dressing plans or other Transvestite things and die, you will go to hell forever because you have brought God's gift in shame with your tempation from wearing your opposite sex's clothes or to become a man or woman. Being a Transvestite deastorys the old you in the past, then your soul will be corrupted by darkness. Just think about it, you have endless tempation to wear women's clothes, and to keep on doing it just to make you happy. It is not helping you, but the process damages your life. It will be like taking cocian for an example. Maybe it won't kill you, but it will kill the person inside of you that God created.
2007-11-17 16:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, you should be able to be your natural self. Now, should you need to hold a job, you might want to use some discretion in when and where to "dress" Society in general has not accepted this so we usually need to take some care. I don't mean to say it is right, but it is reality, for now. i have been feminized by my wife and it is fairly obvious, but it was done over such a long period of time, no one says anything. That does not mean i will wear a dress to work, but i do wear female slacks at times. Be yourself, but keep in mind the vanilla world!!
2007-11-17 16:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by marystoy_2000 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My girlfriend wants to take me shopping for pantyhose while I'm wearing pantyhose, a skirt, and my penny loafers. She wants it to be painfully obvious to the casual observer that the pantyhose I put on the counter are for me. We will be doing this for fun at a shopping Mall in a city away from where we live.
Have fun with it, but set it up in such a way that there won't be any severe consequences for you.
2007-11-18 00:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by delwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋