my bestfriends became bac friends with the group of girls that we did not like at all! i have one true friend left, and i tryd to make everything bettr with my old friends but they dont want to become friends again and i dont no what else to do.since my friends dont seem to want me bac, should i get revenge on them fer everything they have done to me. or try to get them bac any way. how would i get them bac. and they arent excepting sorry.
2007-11-17 15:55:39 · 2 answers · asked by megan f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Giving an apology is like a waiter putting food on a table for people to eat (Your the waiter, your old friends are the people).
It is not your job to make them accept it, but it is your responsibility to put your apology out there for them to accept.
If they don't want it, you can do nothing, and why would you want to ? If your apology is not good enough, what more can you give ?
Truth is, they don't want to accept it, which is a way to reject you. For what reason? Who knows!
Revenge... Is it worth your time and energy to spend of folks that want to reject you ? Probably not. Just hang in there, and see what happens. If they ask you "So, you don't like us anymore ???", you should say "I do, I apoligized, but you aren't accepting it, which hurts, but I don't know what else I can do".
Main point, don't let it control you. Respond, don't react.
-JimR
2007-11-17 16:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give everything its time, and things will cool off!! Be easy going and for goodness sakes DON"T ACT DESPERATE!!!!!!! Both will spot this as a weakness and move in for the kill if thery decide thats the goal!!
2007-11-17 16:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋