Rape Question?

Question

i know this sounds dumb. but if you orgasm does that make it not rape anymore?

Answer 1

Rape is rape!

I think you should go to this website(http://yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/surviving-rape-overcoming-guilt.html) and read up about it. I have included an extract from it

'Please be gentle and stop making yourself feel bad about having had an unexpected orgasm that evening. Many women who have been raped report that, they, too, experienced an orgasm against their will. So is that, then, "proof" that they enjoyed it? Absolutely not! And even though it seems that their body betrayed their emotions, many women still feel guilt and shame over this occurrence, just as you have. Your body experienced a physiological reaction in response to the physical stimulation it received, yet this in no way means that you were unconsciously desiring or enjoying this vicious assault.

On the contrary, rather than responding to emotional enjoyment and satisfaction, your body simply reacted to the intense physical stimulation. This is not at all dissimilar to your body responding to, say, uninvited and unwelcome tickling. While the body may respond to the stimulation of undesired tickling with laughter and giggles physiologically, the sensations are nonetheless unwanted and unpleasurable -- and such stimulation can even cause discomfort or pain. Hopefully from this example of non-consensual tickling you can begin to better understand and accept the distressing orgasm you experienced during your assault.

There is no reason to consider that your body "betrayed" you that evening, or to continue to make yourself feel guilty for having had an orgasm. While it occurred in the course of an assault, the orgasm still doesn't imply that it was either welcomed or desired. Regarding your guilt, please understand that guilt is an internalized response to having violated what we perceive to be our own or society's values. In your case, it is critical that you now make every effort to fully accept that you did absolutely nothing wrong, so for heaven's sake, let this guilt go once and for all and please stop blaming the victim.'

Answer 2

Not for a woman's body. Rape kits work to determine if a woman was raped by checking for signs that a man orgasmed with no signs of a woman orgasming

Answer 3

Anyone who says it is not rape for that reason is definitely not someone you'd want around as your guardian or companion at night! Those freaking perverts have rape in their hearts and deserve to be alone forever.

Answer 4

If I inject some random stranger with a dirty needle full of heroin, they will certainly experience euphoric pleasure. That wouldn't lessen the crime of my forcefully injecting them, and endangering their lives with the risk of dirty needles and the health problems of heroin.

Just because there is an involuntary reaction (for that matter a voluntary one wouldn't matter, either) doesn't change the fact that the woman or man was forced to do something they didn't agree to. People are supposed to have authority over their own body, and nobody has the right to make you do something even if they can show you will enjoy it.

Answer 5

Has anyone who has survived rape ended up with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and/or had people they confided in dismiss the event as "just the breaking of the hymen" or not seeming to understand that it was a very traumatic experience both physically and psychologically?

Answer 6

nope. a orgasm is uncontrolable... its got nothing to do with whether u want to or not. It like that case that they were arguing if a man can be raped by a woman.... they prove yes it can because it was out of his voluntary control...
Please seek medical/legal advice if this actually happened to you...

Answer 7

If you did not want to have sex, it is rape. It doesn't matter what happened during. I am so sorry that you were in a situation that you have to ask this question about.

Answer 8

Rape is rape no matter what.
Never ever say it wasn't because that happened. Trust me.

Answer 9

its still a rape. even if a boy or a man is raped and if he gets erection and he doesnt wants it, its still rape. look at how many teenage boys have problem with erection in school. but do they want it? no. they cant control it.

when genitals are stimulated, even against our will, they still react. its like when someone tickles us. we dont wanna be tickled, but it still tickles us and we feel the touch, even if we dont want it.

Answer 10

if you like it it aint rape boiiiii ;)