I mean, most guys think they should be the one to ask a girl out, because that's just the way it's supposed to happen. But some guys think it's a turn on if the girl asks the guy, because it shows that she's confident.
What do you think?
2007-11-17 15:14:48 · 25 answers · asked by Emma 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well I'm a girl but I like girls who make the first move. I also make the first move and have yet to be turned down.
2007-11-17 15:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sambal Oelek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...the cold, cynical part of me would wonder "Ok, who put her up to this?", and if I weren't too flabbergasted by the novel turn of events, I might actually find a clever way to ask this: "Huh? [smiles] You're talking to me? Sure....whose funny idea was this? [laugh]" You know, try to keep it light and casual...
*lol*, Sure, riiight. ^_^ Like I'm even remotely that cool-headed and slick. I'd probably be a total sucker for it until her buddies started to point and laugh.... -_-
But if it wasn't fake or a dare....I'd be terribly flattered and *relieved* really. I'm really shy out there in real life, and find it *too hard* to start the conversation myself....so if she started it, life would be a lot easier for us I guess. ^_^
Still, I would wonder just *what* some tiny, cute lady would see in someone like me. -_- Oh well, what can you do?
2007-11-17 15:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bradley P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend actually made the first move. never happened to me before. And I'm crazy in love with her. So I'd say if you want to ask a guy out, go for it.
2007-11-17 15:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Gasgano 55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typically, the dude is the person that has 2 make the 1st move. But I have absolutely no problem if the girl asked me out, assuming I'm attracted 2 her already.
2007-11-17 15:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by The Glorious S.O.B. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd love it personally. I hate always being the one who has to ask.
--Shannon dudes asking you out because you are gay does not count, it is only in male and female relationships where it counts. I mean by default a dude is always asking out another dude in a gay relationship and does not discuss about the annoying social norm to which the questioner speaks.
2007-11-17 15:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl and how she asked.
If she asked me with too much confidance like if she knows I would say yes It would be a turn off.
On the other hand, If she asked me nervously it would be a turn on.
2007-11-17 15:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pardon me, but I would Never ask a man out in a million years. I don't care what the social habits of the times are. The first cave man chased the first cave woman and man is the hunter and he can pay the check. I am the one with the goodies.
2007-11-17 15:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'd think, thats a girl who knows what she wants and isnt afraid to go after it.
2007-11-17 15:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nothing, there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out
2007-11-17 15:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by ask alot 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm the one who asked my husband out on our first date. He loved it.
2007-11-17 15:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋