my best friend was telling me how last night she was on her way home from work and a guy stops in his car and waves at her. so she goes over to see and he asked what her name was and where she was going and she said home and he was like wheres ur man, and she said not here and she tried walking away but he kept telling her to come back and he told her that she was sexy and she said thank you and started walking away and he called her back again and he said how he wants to take her out sometime and was asking how old she was and she kept telling him No and he was like but ur so sexy and asked for her number and she told him that her phone was broken and she left. is this sexual harrasement? what do you think of this guy? did he really just want to go on a date or had other motives?
2007-11-17 14:32:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't know how old your friend was, but it is not too bright to ever walk up to a man in a car you don't know for any reason! It's sounds like harrassment to me, but she should not have gone back she should have been firm and said no and walked like she had a purpose.
2007-11-17 14:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by punished_princess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This wan't sexual harrasment if he made sexual comments, tried to or did touch her it would be but it comes very close. There are guys like that out there sadly and he doesn't see anything wrong with what he is doing though we can both see that him making her uncomfortable should be enough to get him to back off. I think he's not the type of guy she should be around and he most def. didnt' just want her number. She was right to walk away, maybe next time she shouldn't even go to the car.
2007-11-17 22:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Pumkin 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No that is not sexual harrasment but it was stupid of your friend to walk up to the car of a stranger. He seemed to be just asking her out. There can be a thin line between a person coming on to someone and sexual harrasment but this is not the latter. Please tell your friend not to go up to a stranger in a car even if he tells her to come over. Scary!
2007-11-17 22:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Martinez 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok so I am going to tell you a story and this is true it happend when I was with my friends. There was 3 of us and my son.
I was suppose to stay at a friends house but my son kept crying and was teething so I asked my friends to walk with me because I did not like walking alone. At this time of night it was around 12:00 am. So we got to my street and started walking and some guy pulls up he asked where a store was and we told him he started backing up to go to the store then pulls up and started jacking off in front of my friends and I so we ran the rest of the way and called the cops. Tell your friend to NEVER walk up to a vehicle that she does not know. With me walking out that late and that guy pulling up I put my son at danger and NEVER, NEVER did I do that again. So tell your friend to never walk up to a vehicle that she she does not know. This is important that she never do that, this guy could have gotten her if he wanted her bad enough. Its not sexual herrassment unless he talks about sex to her or talks about her body and stuff. PLEASE be safe. Also watch out for your friend. Thanks!
2007-11-18 00:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by lostinlove1919 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a creep. Any guy that wanted to hit on a girl wouldn't want her to think he's a creep but that's how this guy was acting and so I'd say thank god you got away from him. I don't know if it's sexual harrasment but it's definatly creepy and strange
2007-11-17 22:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt tell her to decide to go out with a guy that she met because he stopped her to tell her she was sexy... while no one really knows for sure what his motives are because no one knows what he was thinking, it's to risky to assume he did want to take her out on a date... she doesn't know him and has never seen him before, i wouldn't worry to much about it unless he followed her home or starts showing up everywhere she is, but i also wouldnt go out with a guy who was just sitting parked in a car, it's just to dangerous since she doesnt know him or anything
2007-11-17 22:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy P 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
um i am sorry but doesn't ur friend know not to talk to strangers especially ones that are older than her and telling her shes sexy um sounds like harrasment to me
2007-11-17 22:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexual harassment is when someone touches or speaks in appropriately with a sexual tone.
What happened to your friend was a prelude to rape. She should call the police. No, he didn't want a date. He wanted sex. Your friend was lucky he didn't jump out of his car, force her in, and rape or kill her.
TX Mom
2007-11-17 23:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he def had other motives but she did the right thing, really though in future she shouldnt be walking home by herself, get a lift or get someone to walk with her you cant afford to do it these days
2007-11-17 23:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by fng127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man walked up 2 me and said i was sexy, i would run.
2007-11-17 23:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Erica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋